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Birth Stories

Thank you for being an essential part of our journey and for empowering us with the knowledge and tools needed to bring our baby into the world. The impact of Calmbirth will remain with us forever, and we are eternally grateful for the positive difference you have made in our lives.

I have attached my story of Birth. Hope this encourages and motivates others too.

“**Grateful Beyond Words**

I am overflowing with gratitude for the incredibly beautiful journey of bringing my newborn baby into the world. It astounds me how the human body, crafted so perfectly by God, knows exactly what to do in every scenario, guided by the subconscious mind.

**Anticipation and Anxiety**

Three weeks before my due date, anxiety began to creep in. I worried whether the baby was in the right position for delivery, whether he would descend as we had learned in class, and whether I would have a natural birth. These thoughts kept me awake at night, yearning for the day I could finally hold my baby. My husband would soothe me with the Calmbirth audio, and only then could I find some rest.

**Staying Active and Prepared**

With my in-laws arriving from India, I kept myself busy in the kitchen, cleaning the house, and doing all the chores to stay active. We explored Auckland together, and I ensured I was constantly moving, walking between 5 to 10 kilometers daily, practicing yoga, meditating, doing pelvic floor exercises, and bouncing on my beloved Swiss ball. Each day, I felt more refreshed, as if I wasn’t even pregnant. This routine made me feel increasingly prepared for the big day.

**Unexpected Challenges**

Despite my efforts, the baby showed no signs of coming out. On my due date, a scan revealed concerns about the baby’s growth, news no mother wants to hear. Our midwife advised us to visit the hospital. My husband and I decided to have a hearty meal at Saffron, savoring a South Indian dish and our favorite filter coffee before heading to the hospital.

**Hospital Visit and Induction**

At the hospital, I was monitored for the baby’s heartbeat and contractions, everything appeared normal. My husband and I laughed and talked, cherishing those precious moments together. The doctor eventually advised manual induction, which, although not my preference, still meant a natural delivery.

We went home to prepare, excitement bubbling within me. After praying for blessings, we slept, but I awoke around midnight with sharp pains. At first, I dismissed them, but soon realized I was in labor. At 3 am, I informed my husband, who was taken by surprise. I took a warm bath, got ready, and we had a healthy breakfast of oats porridge at 5:30 am. We exercised together, using the Swiss ball and stretching as we had been taught.

**Breathing Through Contractions**
 
From 5:30 am, we tracked my contractions, my husband supporting me with the breathing techniques we had learned in Calmbirth. Initially, the contractions were irregular, but they gradually intensified. We walked around the house, breathing through each contraction, embracing the fresh air.
 
Around 9 am, the hospital called to inform us that no beds were available yet, so we continued walking and exercising. We decided to have one last coffee at our favorite café before heading to the hospital. Even while having contractions in the café, we used the same breathing techniques, turning it into a memorable date before our little one arrived.
 
**Labor and Delivery**
 
At the hospital, I was 3 cm dilated and monitored for an hour. The lack of available doctors meant I wouldn’t be manually induced immediately, which, though frustrating, was for my safety. My contractions grew stronger, making it difficult to sit or lie down. By 6 pm, I was 5 cm dilated, and my midwife was called in.
Opting for gas as pain relief, I faced the relentless contractions, which were now 4 minutes apart and lasted over a minute each. My husband was an unwavering pillar of support, offering cold water, snacks, and playing my favorite song on repeat.
 
My midwife arrived around 10 pm, finding me 8 cm dilated and ready for delivery. She was a beacon of encouragement, and I, despite my exhaustion, pushed through each contraction with my husband and midwife cheering me on. At 12:48 am, I finally gave birth to a handsome little boy. The moment he was placed on my chest, all fatigue vanished. We spent 1.5 hours together, me talking to my baby, my husband and I on cloud nine, marveling at the miracle we had brought into the world.
 
At the end of that dark tunnel, a brilliant light awaited us, shining so brightly as we stepped into this new chapter of life.
 
This whānau birthed at Auckland City Hospital

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