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Partners and Birth Support

The Calmbirth® program embraces and accepts the beauty and power of our diversity in life, culture, love and family. 

The Calmbirth® program embraces and accepts the beauty and power of our diversity in life, culture, love and family. 

Psychological wellbeing for pregnancy and beyond

As a psychologist in Bowral NSW working in perinatal psychology (supporting mothers from the time of conception, through pregnancy and into early childhood) I appreciate very much that the local community have access to the Calmbirth childbirth education program in Mittagong.

As a psychologist in Bowral NSW working in perinatal psychology (supporting mothers from the time of conception, through pregnancy and into early childhood) I appreciate very much that the local community have access to the Calmbirth childbirth education program in Mittagong.

Yoga – The ideal ‘choice’ of exercise during pregnancy

Celia lives in the Southern Highlands with her husband and two young children. She is passionate about the empowerment of women in pregnancy and birth and assists women to achieve this through prenatal yoga, meditation and acupuncture.

Celia lives in the Southern Highlands with her husband and two young children. She is passionate about the empowerment of women in pregnancy and birth and assists women to achieve this through prenatal yoga, meditation and acupuncture.

Exercise whilst pregnant- what is safe?

There are lots of exercises that are safe during training and your current training plan can be modified to allow you to continue training though out all stages of pregnancy.

There are lots of exercises that are safe during training and your current training plan can be modified to allow you to continue training though out all stages of pregnancy.

Can childbirth be enjoyable?

Why is childbirth so feared in our society? I know for certain that I’m not the only woman who has enjoyed her labour and births.

Why is childbirth so feared in our society? I know for certain that I’m not the only woman who has enjoyed her labour and births.

Dads & Men’s Health Week

Preparing for parenthood, fatherhood and family life is A MUCH BIGGER TRANSITION than it may first seem.

Preparing for parenthood, fatherhood and family life is A MUCH BIGGER TRANSITION than it may first seem.

Perinatal Anxiety and Depression

Today, pregnant couples all over Australia are lucky enough to have many choices about how and where they can birth their baby.

Today, pregnant couples all over Australia are lucky enough to have many choices about how and where they can birth their baby.

Making Room For Love

Lets be honest, being a mum is hard work. The demands that today’s mothers are under are different to those of generations that came before, being time poor is one such challenge. Each generation has its own story.

Lets be honest, being a mum is hard work. The demands that today’s mothers are under are different to those of generations that came before, being time poor is one such challenge. Each generation has its own story.

Birth Preferences. Why are they important?

When I talk about the topic of birth preferences, the general feedback from people is “we have heard if you have a birth plan, it won’t go to plan”. Most feel that they will leave their birth in the capable hands of their care providers as “they know best” and are the experts.

When I talk about the topic of birth preferences, the general feedback from people is “we have heard if you have a birth plan, it won’t go to plan”. Most feel that they will leave their birth in the capable hands of their care providers as “they know best” and are the experts.

Perinatal Depression and Anxiety week is this week , 11-17 November. Did you know that dads can also get baby blues?

As time progresses, we as a society have made great progress in understanding women’s emotional state following childbirth, especially in delicate areas such as postnatal depression, so much so that as a society we are able to better recognised early signs of struggles and are able to provide support much quicker and provide the necessary assistance to start addressing this issue.

As time progresses, we as a society have made great progress in understanding women’s emotional state following childbirth, especially in delicate areas such as postnatal depression, so much so that as a society we are able to better recognised early signs of struggles and are able to provide support much quicker and provide the necessary assistance to start addressing this issue.

Perinatal Anxiety and Postnatal Depression Support Services

Here is list of some very useful and supportive organisations that look after your emotional and mental wellbeing during pregnancy, labour and the postnatal period. 

Here is list of some very useful and supportive organisations that look after your emotional and mental wellbeing during pregnancy, labour and the postnatal period. 

Debriefing & Counselling for Birth Trauma

Here is list of some very useful and supportive organisations that look after your emotional and mental wellbeing after experiencing birth trauma.

Here is list of some very useful and supportive organisations that look after your emotional and mental wellbeing after experiencing birth trauma.

There’s no birth like a Calmbirth…there’s no place like home

“You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.” Glinda from The Wizard of OZ.What does the Wizard of OZ and Calmbirth have in common?Sitting and watching the legendary and classic movie “The Wizard of Oz” with my family, it dawned on me how many parallels can be drawn upon to the journey of labour, birth, parenting and our Calmbirth Program that enables and empowers couples to discover their own strength, courage and to trust themselves and each other. So, let me take you on this journey…

“You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.” Glinda from The Wizard of OZ.What does the Wizard of OZ and Calmbirth have in common?Sitting and watching the legendary and classic movie “The Wizard of Oz” with my family, it dawned on me how many parallels can be drawn upon to the journey of labour, birth, parenting and our Calmbirth Program that enables and empowers couples to discover their own strength, courage and to trust themselves and each other. So, let me take you on this journey…

Visualisation and Childbirth

Riki Copper is a Limitless Mindset Coach who has been working with Bob Proctor and the Proctor Gallagher Institute sinice 2017 to change peoples lives with results that stick –  helping people to live happier, healthier and wealthier lives.”OUR MISSION is to assist in raising the level of conscious awareness of every individual who we come into contact with. We do this through facilitating key learnings in a number of self study and mentor programs,” says Riki. As a Mindset Coach, Riki uses some of these principles and shares his knowledge with pregnant couples to help them create the birth they want by using techniques such as visualisation in childbirth and tools to help pregnant couples change their thoughts, perceptions and feelings about birth – to help them create the birth they want by getting them to focus on ‘on what the birth they want actually looks like for them. 

Riki Copper is a Limitless Mindset Coach who has been working with Bob Proctor and the Proctor Gallagher Institute sinice 2017 to change peoples lives with results that stick –  helping people to live happier, healthier and wealthier lives.”OUR MISSION is to assist in raising the level of conscious awareness of every individual who we come into contact with. We do this through facilitating key learnings in a number of self study and mentor programs,” says Riki. As a Mindset Coach, Riki uses some of these principles and shares his knowledge with pregnant couples to help them create the birth they want by using techniques such as visualisation in childbirth and tools to help pregnant couples change their thoughts, perceptions and feelings about birth – to help them create the birth they want by getting them to focus on ‘on what the birth they want actually looks like for them. 

Building Your Village – Strategies To Thrive During Your Postpartum Period

Up until now, the fourth trimester or otherwise known as the postpartum period was seldom talked about. Today, this post partum period has been recognised as crucial not only for the healthy development of the baby, but also for the healing of the mother after birth and the transition to parenthood for both mother and father/partner alike.This is why we are collaborating with experts in the field of perinatal mental health and wellbeing to continue to offer support and confidence to new parents who may be feeling challenged or even overwhelmed with the complexities and emotional journey that becoming new parents brings. We are working together with Rachel Bridge, a psychologist and author who shares our passion and values in supporting families on their postpartum journey by providing much needed resources and strategies to cope during this very fragile time in a new parent’s life.

Up until now, the fourth trimester or otherwise known as the postpartum period was seldom talked about. Today, this post partum period has been recognised as crucial not only for the healthy development of the baby, but also for the healing of the mother after birth and the transition to parenthood for both mother and father/partner alike.This is why we are collaborating with experts in the field of perinatal mental health and wellbeing to continue to offer support and confidence to new parents who may be feeling challenged or even overwhelmed with the complexities and emotional journey that becoming new parents brings. We are working together with Rachel Bridge, a psychologist and author who shares our passion and values in supporting families on their postpartum journey by providing much needed resources and strategies to cope during this very fragile time in a new parent’s life.

Go with the ‘flow’

Thinking will not overcome FEAR but ACTION will.Given I am passionate about teaching couples how to remain calm during labour & birth, one would assume that I am always calm myself.When things go to plan life is beautiful; I am totally calm & confident. However, recently things didn’t go to plan and I found myself submerged in a sea of fear; drowning my natural abilities to go with the flow.

Thinking will not overcome FEAR but ACTION will.Given I am passionate about teaching couples how to remain calm during labour & birth, one would assume that I am always calm myself.When things go to plan life is beautiful; I am totally calm & confident. However, recently things didn’t go to plan and I found myself submerged in a sea of fear; drowning my natural abilities to go with the flow.

How coronavirus is changing maternity wards

Pregnancy is usually a time of joy and nerves but the anxiety is only rising as the coronavirus continues to spread.Calm Birth owner Karen McClay tells Deborah Knight that the coronavirus is having a major impact on pregnant women. “There’s maternity units that are having to consider cutting down visitors and limiting who can actually go onto units as well, so there’s concern about what support people they can take with them.”She says they have tried to adjust to the new normal by moving programs online and using telehealth appointments.

Pregnancy is usually a time of joy and nerves but the anxiety is only rising as the coronavirus continues to spread.Calm Birth owner Karen McClay tells Deborah Knight that the coronavirus is having a major impact on pregnant women. “There’s maternity units that are having to consider cutting down visitors and limiting who can actually go onto units as well, so there’s concern about what support people they can take with them.”She says they have tried to adjust to the new normal by moving programs online and using telehealth appointments.

Even during a pandemic babies WILL be born & Calmbirth will be there to help support, empower & educate pregnant couples in a virtual classroom

Due to the current threat of the Coronavirus and the increased risk of cross infection between class participants, all major maternity hospitals in Sydney have suspended face to face antenatal education classes.
It is anticipated that hospitals in other states will soon apply the same restrictions and private practitioners may also need to adopt the same boundaries. As a result of this pandemic, Calmbirth has come up with an innovative solution that enables pregnant couples, whose anxiety levels maybe peaking with all the uncertainties to still be able to access quality and evidence based childbirth education in a virtual classroom via ZOOM, where the couples can engage with other pregnant couples, their Calmbirth Educator as well as calm their fears about giving birth.

Due to the current threat of the Coronavirus and the increased risk of cross infection between class participants, all major maternity hospitals in Sydney have suspended face to face antenatal education classes.
It is anticipated that hospitals in other states will soon apply the same restrictions and private practitioners may also need to adopt the same boundaries. As a result of this pandemic, Calmbirth has come up with an innovative solution that enables pregnant couples, whose anxiety levels maybe peaking with all the uncertainties to still be able to access quality and evidence based childbirth education in a virtual classroom via ZOOM, where the couples can engage with other pregnant couples, their Calmbirth Educator as well as calm their fears about giving birth.

Owner & Director Karen McClay’s Calmbirth ZOOM Courses

Hi, I’m Karen McClay, I’m the the owner Director of Calmbirth, Midwife, mother and Calmbirth Educator. Now more than ever it’s crucial for pregnant couples to empower themselves with the best quality and evidence based childbirth education to prepare for labour & birth, so that you can work together as a team to birth your baby. The skills and tools you will learn in Calmbirth are tools for life and will help you to deal with your heightened levels of fear, anxiety and stress, especially in these uncertain times as you navigate your way to becoming new parents.

Hi, I’m Karen McClay, I’m the the owner Director of Calmbirth, Midwife, mother and Calmbirth Educator. Now more than ever it’s crucial for pregnant couples to empower themselves with the best quality and evidence based childbirth education to prepare for labour & birth, so that you can work together as a team to birth your baby. The skills and tools you will learn in Calmbirth are tools for life and will help you to deal with your heightened levels of fear, anxiety and stress, especially in these uncertain times as you navigate your way to becoming new parents.

8 Tips to Support your Partner in Labour

It’s a challenging time for everyone at the moment particularly for pregnant women and those who are soon to birth.  So it is important as a birth partner you can be the best support person you can be!

It’s a challenging time for everyone at the moment particularly for pregnant women and those who are soon to birth.  So it is important as a birth partner you can be the best support person you can be!

Induction – Make your Decision based on fact not fear

Currently 1 in 4 women are being induced in Australia.Inductions can increase:The need for medical pain relief most commonly epiduralVacuum or forceps deliveryEmergency Caesarean sectionsWhen deciding to have an induction we are often evaluating ‘risks’. this term alone can provoke fear or anxiety and can inhibit a woman’s ability to make an informed decision.  There is an element of risk in everything we do and we all perceive it differently.  In making a decision about induction we are balancing the pros and cons, based on evidence based information/statistics in relation to the mother and baby’s health. Equally important is the emotional impact on the Mother, her concerns, fears and anxiety about inducing or not need to be considered.

Currently 1 in 4 women are being induced in Australia.Inductions can increase:The need for medical pain relief most commonly epiduralVacuum or forceps deliveryEmergency Caesarean sectionsWhen deciding to have an induction we are often evaluating ‘risks’. this term alone can provoke fear or anxiety and can inhibit a woman’s ability to make an informed decision.  There is an element of risk in everything we do and we all perceive it differently.  In making a decision about induction we are balancing the pros and cons, based on evidence based information/statistics in relation to the mother and baby’s health. Equally important is the emotional impact on the Mother, her concerns, fears and anxiety about inducing or not need to be considered.

THE POWER OF THE BREATH

Times are really crazy and surreal at the moment and stress levels are high. There are things we can do though, to help manage our stress and anxiety during these times and finding ways to do this is important. Connecting with our breath is one way and the beautiful thing is that it’s easy to do, and we can do it whenever and wherever we need to.

Times are really crazy and surreal at the moment and stress levels are high. There are things we can do though, to help manage our stress and anxiety during these times and finding ways to do this is important. Connecting with our breath is one way and the beautiful thing is that it’s easy to do, and we can do it whenever and wherever we need to.

Let’s Zoom into Calmbirth

As a parent educator till recently I would walk into a room filled with becoming parents and with knowledge, experience, my presence, my voice and my hands I would deliver good quality education mixed with the groups involvement, hands on as well as a slight twist of humour and a tinge of a German accent. Only recently I found myself walking into my bedroom to sit in front of a screen to teach Calmbirth to couples.

As a parent educator till recently I would walk into a room filled with becoming parents and with knowledge, experience, my presence, my voice and my hands I would deliver good quality education mixed with the groups involvement, hands on as well as a slight twist of humour and a tinge of a German accent. Only recently I found myself walking into my bedroom to sit in front of a screen to teach Calmbirth to couples.

Stepping into Parenthood

Rachel Bridge is a Perinatal, child and family psychologist and author.She is also one of our Calmbirth expert contributors that prepares Resources for our Calmbirth couples on topics ranging from the postpartum period, setting expectations & parenting to name a few.

Rachel Bridge is a Perinatal, child and family psychologist and author.She is also one of our Calmbirth expert contributors that prepares Resources for our Calmbirth couples on topics ranging from the postpartum period, setting expectations & parenting to name a few.

When will face to face antenatal classes resume?

The one million dollar question we get asked every day since the COVID -19 restrictions came into place is, “When will Calmbirth be resuming face to face antenatal classes?” I wish the answer was that simple that we could give you a definite answer. Even with ‘talk’ of some restrictions being eased off, we still have to practice social distancing within a classroom environment. Here is the latest recommendations and guidelines from The Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, that face to face antenatal courses are not recommended. So, don’t delay booking your Calmbirth ZOOM course and empowering yourself with knowledge and confidence to prepare for your birth because it looks like ZOOM will be here to stay for a while. 

The one million dollar question we get asked every day since the COVID -19 restrictions came into place is, “When will Calmbirth be resuming face to face antenatal classes?” I wish the answer was that simple that we could give you a definite answer. Even with ‘talk’ of some restrictions being eased off, we still have to practice social distancing within a classroom environment. Here is the latest recommendations and guidelines from The Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, that face to face antenatal courses are not recommended. So, don’t delay booking your Calmbirth ZOOM course and empowering yourself with knowledge and confidence to prepare for your birth because it looks like ZOOM will be here to stay for a while. 

The Calmbirth Conversation Series 1: Benefits of midwifery led care and homebirth

Welcome to the Calmbirth Conversation Series!!During these conversations I will be talking with experts in the birthing and parenting fields to provide you with information to make informed decisions for birthing and parenting journeys.

Welcome to the Calmbirth Conversation Series!!During these conversations I will be talking with experts in the birthing and parenting fields to provide you with information to make informed decisions for birthing and parenting journeys.

Calmbirth Conversation Series 2 : Acupressure & TCM

A great conversation with Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth and Melinda Webb from The Birthing Webb about the Benefits of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and Acupuncture for Pregnancy, Labour & Birth.

A great conversation with Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth and Melinda Webb from The Birthing Webb about the Benefits of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and Acupuncture for Pregnancy, Labour & Birth.

Calmbirth Conversation Series 3: What is a Doula & how do they support couples during labour and birth?

During this conversation, Karen McClay, Midwife & Director of Calmbirth chats with Melinda Webb from The Birthing Webb (https://www.melindawebb.com.au). Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, a Doula and a Calmbirth educator. Here they talk about Doulas’ and how they support couples and families during labour & birth.

During this conversation, Karen McClay, Midwife & Director of Calmbirth chats with Melinda Webb from The Birthing Webb (https://www.melindawebb.com.au). Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, a Doula and a Calmbirth educator. Here they talk about Doulas’ and how they support couples and families during labour & birth.

Calmbirth Educator, Kathy Kitzis talks to ‘Interested Podcast’ about her journey as an Educator & mother

Our gorgeous Calmbirth Educator Kathy Kitzis who offers our Calmbirth program in France talks to ‘Interested Podcast’ about Calmbirth and her personal experience as a mother. It’s such a powerful interview!!!

Our gorgeous Calmbirth Educator Kathy Kitzis who offers our Calmbirth program in France talks to ‘Interested Podcast’ about Calmbirth and her personal experience as a mother. It’s such a powerful interview!!!

Mothering the Mother – In the absence of a Village

“As a professional working in the field of perinatal and parental mental health and parenting, I, in no way thought that I was above the mama experiences of unmet expectations or the all mighty ‘mother guilt’…I just thought since I knew the risk factors of perinatal mental health difficulty, I know the approaches that are helpful, I teach the skills and have experienced the journey with so many beautiful and inspirational mamas…. I thought, surely I would have this sorted!!!!!!! wow!!!!!!! was I in for surprise. TGhe intensity of the feelings bought on by these little beings is something I could have never prepared myself for. The rawness of the emotions felt as a mama caught me of guard like a blast of cold wind. the endless unconditional love, the mama bear like protectiveness, the self doubt, the sleep deprivation, the hormones, the relationship adjustments and the self and role adjustments have been and continue to be the most challenging, rewarding journey of my life”.

“As a professional working in the field of perinatal and parental mental health and parenting, I, in no way thought that I was above the mama experiences of unmet expectations or the all mighty ‘mother guilt’…I just thought since I knew the risk factors of perinatal mental health difficulty, I know the approaches that are helpful, I teach the skills and have experienced the journey with so many beautiful and inspirational mamas…. I thought, surely I would have this sorted!!!!!!! wow!!!!!!! was I in for surprise. TGhe intensity of the feelings bought on by these little beings is something I could have never prepared myself for. The rawness of the emotions felt as a mama caught me of guard like a blast of cold wind. the endless unconditional love, the mama bear like protectiveness, the self doubt, the sleep deprivation, the hormones, the relationship adjustments and the self and role adjustments have been and continue to be the most challenging, rewarding journey of my life”.

Planning a homebirth: The benefits of continuity of midwifery care and birthing where babies are made

Story by Claire Heenan, Media & Communications at Homebirth NSW & a Sydney-based birth and postpartum doula Choosing where to give birth and whom you’d like on your birth team is a significantly loaded decision in terms of how you are going to feel about your pregnancy, birth and postpartum experience. Sometimes making a decision as important as this calls for starting with the vision in mind and asking yourself about the hopes and dreams you have for your birth. How do you visualise the birth of your baby? Are you hoping to avoid unnecessary intervention? Do you trust birth as a physiological journey? Of course, the evidence is important too, and as a doula and member of the Homebirth NSW committee, I am a big believer in marrying good quality evidence with a woman’s own intuitive knowing as to what will be best for her and her baby.”Babies being born where they are made. Midwives being ‘with woman’ in every sense. The woman, a warrior at the centre of her birth experience, handing her power to no one. Skin to skin in a woman’s own comfy bed, no rush or fuss. A baby, born into a warm, loving and familiar place; Home”, says Claire Heenan.

Story by Claire Heenan, Media & Communications at Homebirth NSW & a Sydney-based birth and postpartum doula Choosing where to give birth and whom you’d like on your birth team is a significantly loaded decision in terms of how you are going to feel about your pregnancy, birth and postpartum experience. Sometimes making a decision as important as this calls for starting with the vision in mind and asking yourself about the hopes and dreams you have for your birth. How do you visualise the birth of your baby? Are you hoping to avoid unnecessary intervention? Do you trust birth as a physiological journey? Of course, the evidence is important too, and as a doula and member of the Homebirth NSW committee, I am a big believer in marrying good quality evidence with a woman’s own intuitive knowing as to what will be best for her and her baby.”Babies being born where they are made. Midwives being ‘with woman’ in every sense. The woman, a warrior at the centre of her birth experience, handing her power to no one. Skin to skin in a woman’s own comfy bed, no rush or fuss. A baby, born into a warm, loving and familiar place; Home”, says Claire Heenan.

Birth is Experiential – be open to the journey…

Find out what the ‘magic’ is about the Calmbirth program and experience it for yourself  – WHY THERE’S NO BIRTH LIKE A CALMBIRTH “You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.”Glinda from The Wizard of OZ.What does the Wizard of OZ and Calmbirth have in common?Sitting and watching the legendary and classic movie “The Wizard of Oz” with my family, it dawned on me how many parallels can be drawn upon to the journey of labour, birth, parenting and our Calmbirth Program that enables and empowers couples to discover their own strength, courage and to trust themselves and each other. So, let me take you on this journey…

Find out what the ‘magic’ is about the Calmbirth program and experience it for yourself  – WHY THERE’S NO BIRTH LIKE A CALMBIRTH “You’ve always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.”Glinda from The Wizard of OZ.What does the Wizard of OZ and Calmbirth have in common?Sitting and watching the legendary and classic movie “The Wizard of Oz” with my family, it dawned on me how many parallels can be drawn upon to the journey of labour, birth, parenting and our Calmbirth Program that enables and empowers couples to discover their own strength, courage and to trust themselves and each other. So, let me take you on this journey…

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 4: Pelvic Floor Care

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with Sophie Carroll, a women’s health physio from Enlightened Physiotherapy, about the importance of caring for your pelvic floor during pregnancy, including perineal massage, which in turn helps with labour and birth. They also then go on to talk about how to support the recovery of your pelvic floor once you’ve had your baby.

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with Sophie Carroll, a women’s health physio from Enlightened Physiotherapy, about the importance of caring for your pelvic floor during pregnancy, including perineal massage, which in turn helps with labour and birth. They also then go on to talk about how to support the recovery of your pelvic floor once you’ve had your baby.

Baby and toddler sleep help that isn’t sleep training

Are you looking for help with your baby or toddler’s sleep that is not sleep training? As we move through this year of drought, bush-fire, and COVID 19 on into the challenge of the 2020s, increasing numbers of parents are making a decision to avoid conventional sleep training methods.

This could be because they have tried sleep training and have decided it doesn’t work for their family. Experimenting is a great parenting strength and it makes sense that many of us experiment with what still remains the dominant approach to infant sleep.

Or it could be that parents have decided that sleep training doesn’t align with their parenting values. These values are unique to each parent and each family – and it is important to never judge another family’s decisions, since everyone wants to do the right thing by their child.

Are you looking for help with your baby or toddler’s sleep that is not sleep training? As we move through this year of drought, bush-fire, and COVID 19 on into the challenge of the 2020s, increasing numbers of parents are making a decision to avoid conventional sleep training methods.

This could be because they have tried sleep training and have decided it doesn’t work for their family. Experimenting is a great parenting strength and it makes sense that many of us experiment with what still remains the dominant approach to infant sleep.

Or it could be that parents have decided that sleep training doesn’t align with their parenting values. These values are unique to each parent and each family – and it is important to never judge another family’s decisions, since everyone wants to do the right thing by their child.

Calmbirth Conversation Series 6: The Birth Map & Making Informed Decisions About Birth

In this episode the Director of Calmbirth, Karen McClay, chats with Catherine Bell, a Birth Cartographer @birthmapping, about her book “The Birth Map”. This is a fantastic tool to assist women and their partners navigate their journey of birth.

The Birth Map enables them to open the lines of communication with each other and their caregivers and most importantly, make informed decisions for the best birth for not only themselves but for their babies.

In this episode the Director of Calmbirth, Karen McClay, chats with Catherine Bell, a Birth Cartographer @birthmapping, about her book “The Birth Map”. This is a fantastic tool to assist women and their partners navigate their journey of birth.

The Birth Map enables them to open the lines of communication with each other and their caregivers and most importantly, make informed decisions for the best birth for not only themselves but for their babies.

Pregnant in a Pandemic – Isolated but NOT Alone….

Being a soon to be mum is already pretty daunting and that is before COVID!

Being a mum of three, I’ve had three different birth experiences and being a midwife I’ve helped 100’s of soon to be mums go through this.

Being a soon to be mum is already pretty daunting and that is before COVID!

Being a mum of three, I’ve had three different birth experiences and being a midwife I’ve helped 100’s of soon to be mums go through this.

Birth Trauma…

The birthing of a baby, and the birthing of a mother and of a father, is a significant transitional event in our lives. . A mothers experience of birth, can go onto shape her experiences of motherhood in its entirety. Her experiences of self, her experiences of her relationships (particularly the relationship with her baby), and her experiences of the world and how she feels supported, or unsupported in her journey of motherhood.

The birthing of a baby, and the birthing of a mother and of a father, is a significant transitional event in our lives. . A mothers experience of birth, can go onto shape her experiences of motherhood in its entirety. Her experiences of self, her experiences of her relationships (particularly the relationship with her baby), and her experiences of the world and how she feels supported, or unsupported in her journey of motherhood.

How to prepare for a positive birth experience…

Listen to Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth as she talks about how to prepare for a positve birth for @thenestcpr ‘s Ultimate Mothers Group. Karen covers everything you need to know on how to achieve a positive birth.

Listen to Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth as she talks about how to prepare for a positve birth for @thenestcpr ‘s Ultimate Mothers Group. Karen covers everything you need to know on how to achieve a positive birth.

Calmbirth Conversation Series 7: Choosing the best model of care for your pregnancy and birth goals

In this episode I chat with Professor Hannah Dahlen from Western Sydney University about the importance of choosing the best model of care and the right caregiver to support you with your wishes for your pregnancy and birth. We talk about why this decision is so important and what the latest research is showing. Happy listening…
The Birth Map enables them to open the lines of communication with each other and their caregivers and most importantly, make informed decisions for the best birth for not only themselves but for their babies.

In this episode I chat with Professor Hannah Dahlen from Western Sydney University about the importance of choosing the best model of care and the right caregiver to support you with your wishes for your pregnancy and birth. We talk about why this decision is so important and what the latest research is showing. Happy listening…
The Birth Map enables them to open the lines of communication with each other and their caregivers and most importantly, make informed decisions for the best birth for not only themselves but for their babies.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 8:  Acupuncture for Pregnancy Labour & Birth

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with @melindawebb_healthpractitioner about the benefits of Chinese Medicine and acupuncture for pregnancy, labour and birth.

Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, specialising in Women’s Health in Rozelle NSW. She also works closely with families as a Doula and Calmbirth Educator.

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with @melindawebb_healthpractitioner about the benefits of Chinese Medicine and acupuncture for pregnancy, labour and birth.

Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, specialising in Women’s Health in Rozelle NSW. She also works closely with families as a Doula and Calmbirth Educator.

Postnatal Isolation

The messages are flowing, the visitors are frequent and there are huge smiles all round. You’ve just given birth to the most spectacular little human you have ever seen! Life is hectic and tiring, yet somehow you still feel a sense of energy and excitement when you gaze into those sparkling, curious eyes.

Quite quickly your new life settles into its new pattern. Partners go back to work, family and friends visit much less often, and the messages become a slow trickle rather than a tsunami. You are now feeling far more alone than you had ever expected. Who do you talk to? Who do you share your little victories with? What about navigating those inevitable challenges that come along with caring for a baby? Nobody told you how hard this really is.

The messages are flowing, the visitors are frequent and there are huge smiles all round. You’ve just given birth to the most spectacular little human you have ever seen! Life is hectic and tiring, yet somehow you still feel a sense of energy and excitement when you gaze into those sparkling, curious eyes.

Quite quickly your new life settles into its new pattern. Partners go back to work, family and friends visit much less often, and the messages become a slow trickle rather than a tsunami. You are now feeling far more alone than you had ever expected. Who do you talk to? Who do you share your little victories with? What about navigating those inevitable challenges that come along with caring for a baby? Nobody told you how hard this really is.

Calmbirth for FREE as part of a pilot study in Auckland City Hospital in New Zealand – Here is what A Calmbirth couple in Auckland had to say about their Calmbirth experience…

A testimonial from a Calmbirth couple, Christina Fortes & Noa Pitovao that were part of a pilot study at the Auckland City Hospital.

We are firm believers of Calmbirth
and sincerely hope we manage to encourage many more couples to attend,
and most of all, get the Auckland City Hospital to continue providing the Calmbirth course for free so it is accessible by all walks of life and not just those who have spare money floating about.

This pilot project is part of an initiative to support natural birth in Auckland City Hospital. To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

SEE if you qualify for a FREE Auckland DHB CALMBIRTH Course. To Learn more and to Register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

Tag and Tell ALL your pregnant friends in Auckland, NZ.
Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, specialising in Women’s Health in Rozelle NSW. She also works closely with families as a Doula and Calmbirth Educator.

A testimonial from a Calmbirth couple, Christina Fortes & Noa Pitovao that were part of a pilot study at the Auckland City Hospital.

We are firm believers of Calmbirth
and sincerely hope we manage to encourage many more couples to attend,
and most of all, get the Auckland City Hospital to continue providing the Calmbirth course for free so it is accessible by all walks of life and not just those who have spare money floating about.

This pilot project is part of an initiative to support natural birth in Auckland City Hospital. To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

SEE if you qualify for a FREE Auckland DHB CALMBIRTH Course. To Learn more and to Register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

Tag and Tell ALL your pregnant friends in Auckland, NZ.
Melinda is a Dr of Chinese Medicine, specialising in Women’s Health in Rozelle NSW. She also works closely with families as a Doula and Calmbirth Educator.

Birth is not just about birthing a baby, but the birth of a mother too…

For part 3 of Clair Wind from the Mum Will Know Podcast mini series on Childbirth Education options, Claire speaks with Calmbirth director Karen McClay. Following in her father’s footsteps as a midwife and Calmbirth educator, Karen opens up how birth is not just about birthing a baby, but the birth of a mother too.

She delves into the importance of acknowledging the emotional side of birth and parenting and discusses how the event of giving birth is monumental in preparing a couple to face parenthood.

Karen shares exactly what to expect from a Calmbirth course and offers wisdom on the importance of education in all aspects of life

For part 3 of Clair Wind from the Mum Will Know Podcast mini series on Childbirth Education options, Claire speaks with Calmbirth director Karen McClay. Following in her father’s footsteps as a midwife and Calmbirth educator, Karen opens up how birth is not just about birthing a baby, but the birth of a mother too.

She delves into the importance of acknowledging the emotional side of birth and parenting and discusses how the event of giving birth is monumental in preparing a couple to face parenthood.

Karen shares exactly what to expect from a Calmbirth course and offers wisdom on the importance of education in all aspects of life

Breastfeeding in the first days and weeks of life…

Dr Pamela Douglas is in conversation with Melbourne neonatologist Dr Danielle Freeman about breastfeeding in the first days and weeks of life and avoiding formula use in the days after the birth but still keeping baby safe.

Dr Pamela Douglas is in conversation with Melbourne neonatologist Dr Danielle Freeman about breastfeeding in the first days and weeks of life and avoiding formula use in the days after the birth but still keeping baby safe.

You can’t sense and stress at the same time…

One of our biggest goals in the @Calmbirth Program is to give you and your partner tools to work with the challenges and stressors that can arise not only in labour but also parenting and your everyday life. So here is a quick and simple, but powerful tool to use whenever you may be feeling a little overwhelmed and stressed.

Have you ever noticed that you can’t sense and stress at the same time?
Just stop and think about it for a moment – you can’t sense and stress at the same time!

One of our biggest goals in the @Calmbirth Program is to give you and your partner tools to work with the challenges and stressors that can arise not only in labour but also parenting and your everyday life. So here is a quick and simple, but powerful tool to use whenever you may be feeling a little overwhelmed and stressed.

Have you ever noticed that you can’t sense and stress at the same time?
Just stop and think about it for a moment – you can’t sense and stress at the same time!

Calmbirth – Reframing what birth looks & feels like and changing our birth culture.

As a girl I grew up exposed to mainstream media in which birthing women on TV or in the movies were always portrayed to be screaming, swearing at their partners, and huffing and puffing whilst squeezing their partner’s hands so tightly, and pushing their babies out so hard that I thought that they would both pass out! Even today, with everything we know about birth, these prevalent stereotypical images become deeply ingrained in us as individuals, and in our culture, influencing our beliefs and perceptions of labour and birth –  planting seeds of fear and doubt around giving birth.

But not all births are like that and nor do they have to be!

As a girl I grew up exposed to mainstream media in which birthing women on TV or in the movies were always portrayed to be screaming, swearing at their partners, and huffing and puffing whilst squeezing their partner’s hands so tightly, and pushing their babies out so hard that I thought that they would both pass out! Even today, with everything we know about birth, these prevalent stereotypical images become deeply ingrained in us as individuals, and in our culture, influencing our beliefs and perceptions of labour and birth –  planting seeds of fear and doubt around giving birth.

But not all births are like that and nor do they have to be!

Calmbirth Program coming to Nepean

Mums-to-be and their birth partners can benefit from tips and techniques to enrich their birth experience when the highly-acclaimed Calmbirth education program begins at Nepean Hospital at the end of February.

Nepean Hospital is the only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering this well-regarded childbirth education program.

“Calmbirth gives women and caregivers the tools to promote positive birth, decrease stress and empower women by instilling them with confidence during birth,” says Nepean Hospital Clinical Midwifery Consultant, Justine Elliott.

“Midwives highly value the education the program provides women and we believe Calmbirth will be of real bene t to the expectant parents we care for.”

Mums-to-be and their birth partners can benefit from tips and techniques to enrich their birth experience when the highly-acclaimed Calmbirth education program begins at Nepean Hospital at the end of February.

Nepean Hospital is the only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering this well-regarded childbirth education program.

“Calmbirth gives women and caregivers the tools to promote positive birth, decrease stress and empower women by instilling them with confidence during birth,” says Nepean Hospital Clinical Midwifery Consultant, Justine Elliott.

“Midwives highly value the education the program provides women and we believe Calmbirth will be of real bene t to the expectant parents we care for.”

2021 brings new ‘calm’ beginnings in NZ…

2021 brings new beginnings in NZ. Many without their family here due to COVID border restrictions, and they look to Calmbirth antenatal classes being offered for FREE as part of a Pilot Project at the Auckland City hospital to help them feel more at ease and prepared for their birth.

Calmbirth is being offered for FREE as a pilot project at the Auckland City Hospital. This pilot project is part of an initiative to support normal birth in Auckland City Hospital. With only months left to go before this pilot ends in June 2021, make sure you don’t miss out! To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

2021 brings new beginnings in NZ. Many without their family here due to COVID border restrictions, and they look to Calmbirth antenatal classes being offered for FREE as part of a Pilot Project at the Auckland City hospital to help them feel more at ease and prepared for their birth.

Calmbirth is being offered for FREE as a pilot project at the Auckland City Hospital. This pilot project is part of an initiative to support normal birth in Auckland City Hospital. With only months left to go before this pilot ends in June 2021, make sure you don’t miss out! To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

Making birth calmer: New Program comes to Nepean

A highly acclaimed birth education program will be available for expectant mothers and their birth partners in February at Nepean Hospital. The only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering Calmbirth, the classes will provide tips and techniques to enhance the birthing experience. 

Nepean Hospital is the only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering this well-regarded childbirth education program.

“Calmbirth gives women and caregivers the tools to promote positive birth, decrease stress and empower women by instilling them with confidence during birth,” says Nepean Hospital Clinical Midwifery Consultant, Justine Elliott.

“Midwives highly value the education the program provides women and we believe Calmbirth will be of real bene t to the expectant parents we care for.”

A highly acclaimed birth education program will be available for expectant mothers and their birth partners in February at Nepean Hospital. The only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering Calmbirth, the classes will provide tips and techniques to enhance the birthing experience. 

Nepean Hospital is the only hospital in Western Sydney currently offering this well-regarded childbirth education program.

“Calmbirth gives women and caregivers the tools to promote positive birth, decrease stress and empower women by instilling them with confidence during birth,” says Nepean Hospital Clinical Midwifery Consultant, Justine Elliott.

“Midwives highly value the education the program provides women and we believe Calmbirth will be of real bene t to the expectant parents we care for.”

The biggest thing that affects a woman’s birth is her headspace

“It’s a different birth, you’ve got this”
Karen McClay is better known as the Director of Calmbirth but a lesser known fact about the registered midwife, nurse and mother of three is that she herself undertook her own VBAC journey. In today’s bonus episode we had the privilege of hearing that personal story.
Karen tells of her first birth and the emotions surrounding this initial caesarean. Karen talks about the complexity of this experience and how women on a VBAC journey are often forced to look back and examine their first birth experiences in a different way to others. Karen is also the daughter of Calmbirth founder, Peter Jackson and we hear of how the program evolved here in Australia.

“It’s a different birth, you’ve got this”
Karen McClay is better known as the Director of Calmbirth but a lesser known fact about the registered midwife, nurse and mother of three is that she herself undertook her own VBAC journey. In today’s bonus episode we had the privilege of hearing that personal story.
Karen tells of her first birth and the emotions surrounding this initial caesarean. Karen talks about the complexity of this experience and how women on a VBAC journey are often forced to look back and examine their first birth experiences in a different way to others. Karen is also the daughter of Calmbirth founder, Peter Jackson and we hear of how the program evolved here in Australia.

Women have the right to make informed choices…

“Women have the right to make informed choices. They have the right to give and decline and withdraw consent at any point. Midwives and doctors should be able to support those rights without fear of persecution”  – Jo Hunter

“Women have the right to make informed choices. They have the right to give and decline and withdraw consent at any point. Midwives and doctors should be able to support those rights without fear of persecution”  – Jo Hunter

Calmbirth for FREE as part of a pilot study in Auckland City Hospital in New Zealand – Here is what Lucy, a Calmbirth mum in Auckland had to say about her Calmbirth experience…

A testimonial from a Calmbirth mother, Lucy who had a beautiful baby girl, Dahlia born on the 30th January 2021 at Auckland City Hospital.

Lucy completed the Auckland City Hospital ADHB Calmbirth weekend course on the 5 & 6 December 2020.

She said the Calmbirth breathing techniques and all the knowledge & confidence she gained throughout the Calmbirth Program was pivotal in making her have a positive birth experience. 

Calmbirth is being offered for FREE as a pilot project at the Auckland City Hospital. This pilot project is part of an initiative to support normal birth in Auckland City Hospital. With only months left to go before this pilot ends in June 2021, make sure you don’t miss out! To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

A testimonial from a Calmbirth mother, Lucy who had a beautiful baby girl, Dahlia born on the 30th January 2021 at Auckland City Hospital.

Lucy completed the Auckland City Hospital ADHB Calmbirth weekend course on the 5 & 6 December 2020.

She said the Calmbirth breathing techniques and all the knowledge & confidence she gained throughout the Calmbirth Program was pivotal in making her have a positive birth experience. 

Calmbirth is being offered for FREE as a pilot project at the Auckland City Hospital. This pilot project is part of an initiative to support normal birth in Auckland City Hospital. With only months left to go before this pilot ends in June 2021, make sure you don’t miss out! To learn more and to register go to: http://pepi.adhb.govt.nz/

Your Positive Birth

When it comes to birthing your baby there are 5 essential things you can do to make your birth a positive experience..Here are my top five: your mindset matters, knowledge is power, practice makes permanent, setting up your birth space/environment and knowing your birth rights and choices. 

When it comes to birthing your baby there are 5 essential things you can do to make your birth a positive experience..Here are my top five: your mindset matters, knowledge is power, practice makes permanent, setting up your birth space/environment and knowing your birth rights and choices. 

Calmbirth Quotes & Affirmation Cards

Looking for the ideal baby shower or mother’s day to be present?…Then look no further as Calmbirth has the perfect gift.

Looking for the ideal baby shower or mother’s day to be present?…Then look no further as Calmbirth has the perfect gift.

Birth Affirmations – what are they and how do they help?

Birth quotes & affirmations are a wonderful tool to use when preparing for, and during labour and birth. Why? Because they are positive, powerful statements and words which inspire and empower you to think differently and to change your mindset.

Birth quotes & affirmations are a wonderful tool to use when preparing for, and during labour and birth. Why? Because they are positive, powerful statements and words which inspire and empower you to think differently and to change your mindset.

Postpartum Bleeding – What to Expect

Vaginal bleeding (known as Lochia) is a normal part of giving birth, whether you have a vaginal birth or a Caesarean section birth. Lochia is made up of tissue, blood and mucous.

The bleeding is due to the placenta detaching from the wall of the uterus (after the birth of baby), where it was held in place by blood vessels that ran between the uterus and placenta. This leaves the blood vessels open, which causes the bleeding, whilst the uterus works hard to clamp them shut post birth and renew the lining of the uterus.

Vaginal bleeding (known as Lochia) is a normal part of giving birth, whether you have a vaginal birth or a Caesarean section birth. Lochia is made up of tissue, blood and mucous.

The bleeding is due to the placenta detaching from the wall of the uterus (after the birth of baby), where it was held in place by blood vessels that ran between the uterus and placenta. This leaves the blood vessels open, which causes the bleeding, whilst the uterus works hard to clamp them shut post birth and renew the lining of the uterus.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 10. Dr. Andrew Bissett Breech Birth

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with the leading obstetrician here in Australia on breech birth delivery, Dr Andrew Bissett.

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with the leading obstetrician here in Australia on breech birth delivery, Dr Andrew Bissett.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 11. Hazel Keedle VBAC

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with Hazel Keedle, who is a VBAC Researcher, as well as a  Lecturer and Academic Course Advisor of the Bachelor of Midwifery and PhD candidate in the School of Nursing and Midwifery at Western Sydney Univeristy. Hazel talks to Karen about VBAC. 

Tune in to this episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast with Director Calmbirth, Karen McClay, who chats with Hazel Keedle, who is a VBAC Researcher, as well as a  Lecturer and Academic Course Advisor of the Bachelor of Midwifery and PhD candidate in the School of Nursing and Midwifery at Western Sydney Univeristy. Hazel talks to Karen about VBAC. 

Calmbirth baby born to Hannah & Tony who were part of the Pilot Study in Auckland City Hospital

Hannah and her partner Tony welcomed their beautiful baby at home after participating in the Calmbirth Pilot Study in the Auckland City Hosptial in New Zealand. 

Here they share their story and what they thought about the Calmbirth program. 

Hannah and her partner Tony welcomed their beautiful baby at home after participating in the Calmbirth Pilot Study in the Auckland City Hosptial in New Zealand. 

Here they share their story and what they thought about the Calmbirth program. 

Getting To Know Calmbirth Educator Karen Jones

My name is Karen. I have worked as a Midwife for almost 30 years.

About 7 years ago I decided to take a position as a Community Midwife in Aboriginal health. My AMIHS (Aboriginal Maternal Infant Health Service) position allows me to see women in the antenatal period and up until 6 weeks post-partum. A job which is both challenging and extremely rewarding.

I work alongside an Aboriginal Health Practioner. Together we support all pregnant Aboriginal Women, as well as those Non Indigenous women having Aboriginal babies.

What we quickly realised in our community, was that breast feeding rates amongst our clients were extremely low.

 Some of the reasons for not breast feeding identified were

“My mum, sister, aunty didn’t breast feed so why should I”
I won’t have enough milk.
Its “shame”

My name is Karen. I have worked as a Midwife for almost 30 years.

About 7 years ago I decided to take a position as a Community Midwife in Aboriginal health. My AMIHS (Aboriginal Maternal Infant Health Service) position allows me to see women in the antenatal period and up until 6 weeks post-partum. A job which is both challenging and extremely rewarding.

I work alongside an Aboriginal Health Practioner. Together we support all pregnant Aboriginal Women, as well as those Non Indigenous women having Aboriginal babies.

What we quickly realised in our community, was that breast feeding rates amongst our clients were extremely low.

 Some of the reasons for not breast feeding identified were

“My mum, sister, aunty didn’t breast feed so why should I”
I won’t have enough milk.
Its “shame”

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 12.Support in Perinatal Mental Health.Creating a Safe, Private environment in the fourth trimester

Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay chats with Perinatal, Child and Family Psychologist,  Rachel Bridge about creating a safe, calm and private environment in the fourth trimester.

Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay chats with Perinatal, Child and Family Psychologist,  Rachel Bridge about creating a safe, calm and private environment in the fourth trimester.

Using a comb for labour pain relief!

How do the combs work?
They are a simple, effective and wonderful pain management tool that help women in labour as they act as a  powerful distraction or a focal point  by activating the Gate Control Theory. Researchers have long observed that factors such as thoughts, emotions, and expectations can influence our perceptions of pain.

The Gate Control Theory of pain asserts that non-painful input closes the nerve “gates” to painful input, which prevents pain sensation from traveling to the central nervous system. The comb works on the Pain Gate Control Theory, distracting the brain which allows more of your attention to focus on the sensation of what is happening with your hand and away from the sensations of contractions. 

How do the combs work?
They are a simple, effective and wonderful pain management tool that help women in labour as they act as a  powerful distraction or a focal point  by activating the Gate Control Theory. Researchers have long observed that factors such as thoughts, emotions, and expectations can influence our perceptions of pain.

The Gate Control Theory of pain asserts that non-painful input closes the nerve “gates” to painful input, which prevents pain sensation from traveling to the central nervous system. The comb works on the Pain Gate Control Theory, distracting the brain which allows more of your attention to focus on the sensation of what is happening with your hand and away from the sensations of contractions. 

Calmbirth mum’s testimonial for being given the opportunity to do Calmbirth as part of the Pilot Study in Auckland City Hospital

A single mum shares her gratitude on being given the opportunity to do the Calmbirth course as part of the Calmbirth Pilot Study at the Auckland City Hosptial.

Here is what she had to say: 

A single mum shares her gratitude on being given the opportunity to do the Calmbirth course as part of the Calmbirth Pilot Study at the Auckland City Hosptial.

Here is what she had to say: 

Breastfeeding on Demand

It’s World Breastfeeding Week! This year’s theme is: “Protect breastfeeding: a shared responsibility”. The theme highlights the importance of support – right from a nuclear level through to a more structural level, to enable women to achieve their breastfeeding goals, so that babies and infants can reach their optimal health.

It’s World Breastfeeding Week! This year’s theme is: “Protect breastfeeding: a shared responsibility”. The theme highlights the importance of support – right from a nuclear level through to a more structural level, to enable women to achieve their breastfeeding goals, so that babies and infants can reach their optimal health.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 13. Support for breastfeeding, baby sleep and attachment

In episode 13 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay talks to the Founder of Possums & Co & Medical Director & lactation consultant, Pamela Douglas about how the work of Possums & Co helps prepare, educate and support families in the challenges of the first 12 months of their parenting journey with breastfeeding, baby sleep and cry fuss problems and parent mood and attachment.

In episode 13 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay talks to the Founder of Possums & Co & Medical Director & lactation consultant, Pamela Douglas about how the work of Possums & Co helps prepare, educate and support families in the challenges of the first 12 months of their parenting journey with breastfeeding, baby sleep and cry fuss problems and parent mood and attachment.

An open mind is an open body…

Thanks NZ calmbirth families for adapting to ZOOM.
Just like birth, sometimes things can change, unfold a way we didn’t expect. Thanks for remaining positive for yourselves and your babies, being open to learn a different way.
Open mind, is an open body.

“Things turn out the best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out” – Peter Jackson, founder of calmbirth.

During NZ Lockdown CALMBIRTH continues via ZOOM
– full weekends, 2 x Sundays, or 4x Evening sessions 6-9pm.

Thanks NZ calmbirth families for adapting to ZOOM.
Just like birth, sometimes things can change, unfold a way we didn’t expect. Thanks for remaining positive for yourselves and your babies, being open to learn a different way.
Open mind, is an open body.

“Things turn out the best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out” – Peter Jackson, founder of calmbirth.

During NZ Lockdown CALMBIRTH continues via ZOOM
– full weekends, 2 x Sundays, or 4x Evening sessions 6-9pm.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 14. COPE – Emotional Support For The Challenges Of Becoming A Parent

In Episode 14 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Karen McClay talks to Dr. Nicole Highet who is the Founder & Executive Director of COPE, the Centre of Perinatal Excellence and how COPE is providing support for the emotional challenges of becoming a parent. 

In Episode 14 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Karen McClay talks to Dr. Nicole Highet who is the Founder & Executive Director of COPE, the Centre of Perinatal Excellence and how COPE is providing support for the emotional challenges of becoming a parent. 

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 15. The Golden Month

In Episode 15 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay talks to Dr Carla Brion & Nadia Parisi about the Golden Month – an in-home postpartum service they have created based on Traditional Chinese Medicine & Ayurvedic practices to nourish and nurture women in the postnatal period. 

Dr Carla Brion is a Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Acupuncturist & Women’s Health Specialist while Nadia Parisi is a  Women’s Health Massage Therapist, Fertility, Prenatal & Postnatal Yoga Teacher, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner – two dynamic women who are here to break the mould, shake things up & bring women the care that they really need. It takes a village to hold the mother. “We want to  re-shape the postpartum care in our community, for our daughters & their daughters to come.”

In Episode 15 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast, Calmbirth Director, Karen McClay talks to Dr Carla Brion & Nadia Parisi about the Golden Month – an in-home postpartum service they have created based on Traditional Chinese Medicine & Ayurvedic practices to nourish and nurture women in the postnatal period. 

Dr Carla Brion is a Doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine, Acupuncturist & Women’s Health Specialist while Nadia Parisi is a  Women’s Health Massage Therapist, Fertility, Prenatal & Postnatal Yoga Teacher, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner – two dynamic women who are here to break the mould, shake things up & bring women the care that they really need. It takes a village to hold the mother. “We want to  re-shape the postpartum care in our community, for our daughters & their daughters to come.”

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 16. Pregnancy Yoga

In Episode 16 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Calmbirth  Director, Karen McClay talks to our wonderful Calmbirth Educators and Yoga Instructors, Maja Batista and Karen Shlegeris about the benefits of pregnancy yoga in preparation for labour and birth. 

In Episode 16 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Calmbirth  Director, Karen McClay talks to our wonderful Calmbirth Educators and Yoga Instructors, Maja Batista and Karen Shlegeris about the benefits of pregnancy yoga in preparation for labour and birth. 

Is your mind open to birth?

Our culture tends to view birth simply as a physical process of the female body, the mechanical opening of the uterus and cervix, then the expulsion of a baby from the uterus and out of the vagina. But birth is far more complex than this. For birth is just as much of the mind as it is of the body.

She is an absolute dream, and I can say a calm birth has lead to a calm baby! She is an absolute dream and we are loving being parents.

Our culture tends to view birth simply as a physical process of the female body, the mechanical opening of the uterus and cervix, then the expulsion of a baby from the uterus and out of the vagina. But birth is far more complex than this. For birth is just as much of the mind as it is of the body.

She is an absolute dream, and I can say a calm birth has lead to a calm baby! She is an absolute dream and we are loving being parents.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 17: Dr. Sarah Buckley – Oxytocin and Birth

In episode 17 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast I talk to Dr. Sarah Buckley about Oxytocin and birth. Dr. Sarah Buckley is a GP/family physician with qualifications in GP-obstetrics and family planning. She is the mother of four home-born children, and currently combines motherhood with her work as a writer on pregnancy, birth, and parenting.

In episode 17 of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast I talk to Dr. Sarah Buckley about Oxytocin and birth. Dr. Sarah Buckley is a GP/family physician with qualifications in GP-obstetrics and family planning. She is the mother of four home-born children, and currently combines motherhood with her work as a writer on pregnancy, birth, and parenting.

Practice makes Permanent

One of things we talk a lot about in Calmbirth is that Practice makes Permanent. This means that through our practice we create habits of doing (& thinking) and then the things that we practice become automatic and easy for us to do (& think). And the biggest tool that we encourage our couples to ‘make permanent’ is the Relaxation Response.  

She is an absolute dream, and I can say a calm birth has lead to a calm baby! She is an absolute dream and we are loving being parents.

One of things we talk a lot about in Calmbirth is that Practice makes Permanent. This means that through our practice we create habits of doing (& thinking) and then the things that we practice become automatic and easy for us to do (& think). And the biggest tool that we encourage our couples to ‘make permanent’ is the Relaxation Response.  

She is an absolute dream, and I can say a calm birth has lead to a calm baby! She is an absolute dream and we are loving being parents.

Mothers Milk Bank Charity – Giving parents the ‘choice’ of donated, screened, and pasteurized breast milk.

Mothers Milk Bank Charity is thrilled to be collaborating with Calmbirth to spread the word about our service and give parents the opportunity to learn about how they, as mothers, can donate their breastmilk milk as well as obtain donor breast milk as an ‘insurance policy’ just in case they need it.  
We will be working together, providing pregnant women samples of their naturopathically designed lactation cookies and supporting women on their pregnancy and breastfeeding journey.

Mothers Milk Bank Charity is thrilled to be collaborating with Calmbirth to spread the word about our service and give parents the opportunity to learn about how they, as mothers, can donate their breastmilk milk as well as obtain donor breast milk as an ‘insurance policy’ just in case they need it.  
We will be working together, providing pregnant women samples of their naturopathically designed lactation cookies and supporting women on their pregnancy and breastfeeding journey.

The Different models of Pregnancy Care

Choosing a care provider for your pregnancy can be confusingYet it is so important. Here’s a rundown of some of the options.

Choosing a care provider for your pregnancy can be confusingYet it is so important. Here’s a rundown of some of the options.

Chiropractic Care – should it be part of your pregnancy plan?

Pregnancy is a time of massive change – mentally, emotionally, hormonally, and biomechanically
It is also a time when many women look for other options to manage various health challenges during their pregnancy. Chiropractic care rates among the many that women choose during this time. The great thing about chiropractic care is that it is safe, gentle, and drug-free – things we all want in any intervention while pregnant.

As a chiropractor, it is both a responsibility and a privilege to care for increasing numbers of pregnant women as more and more of them seek out chiropractic care as part of their pregnancy plans.

This article explores some new research around the possible benefits of chiropractic care for pregnant women and offers a brief review of the broader picture of chiropractic care in this area. 

Pregnancy is a time of massive change – mentally, emotionally, hormonally, and biomechanically
It is also a time when many women look for other options to manage various health challenges during their pregnancy. Chiropractic care rates among the many that women choose during this time. The great thing about chiropractic care is that it is safe, gentle, and drug-free – things we all want in any intervention while pregnant.

As a chiropractor, it is both a responsibility and a privilege to care for increasing numbers of pregnant women as more and more of them seek out chiropractic care as part of their pregnancy plans.

This article explores some new research around the possible benefits of chiropractic care for pregnant women and offers a brief review of the broader picture of chiropractic care in this area. 

The Postpartum Pledge…

Today was a light bulb moment

Before heading off to a gorgeous winery with friends to celebrate our mumma to be, I had organised a little guessing game of ‘if you guess the DOB/gender you win a bottle of wine from the Yarra Valley’

As I was writing on the answer cards I thought up the idea of numbering each card. The number on the card represented what week postpartum each friend was going to be a go to support person for our friend in the early postpartum.

Today was a light bulb moment

Before heading off to a gorgeous winery with friends to celebrate our mumma to be, I had organised a little guessing game of ‘if you guess the DOB/gender you win a bottle of wine from the Yarra Valley’

As I was writing on the answer cards I thought up the idea of numbering each card. The number on the card represented what week postpartum each friend was going to be a go to support person for our friend in the early postpartum.

All the oxytocin vibes…

Oxytocin is the hormone of LOVE, associated with trust, empathy, relationship building, sexual activity, labour, birthing, breastfeeding and bonding! 

Oxytocin is the hormone of LOVE, associated with trust, empathy, relationship building, sexual activity, labour, birthing, breastfeeding and bonding! 

Happy IBCLC Day!

I have been an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant for 5 years now and will be re-certifying my LC certificate this year. 

Being a Lactation Consultant has been hugely rewarding in my career as a Maternal and Child Health Nurse, having early access to women and their feeding journey within the first week of birth.

I have been an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant for 5 years now and will be re-certifying my LC certificate this year. 

Being a Lactation Consultant has been hugely rewarding in my career as a Maternal and Child Health Nurse, having early access to women and their feeding journey within the first week of birth.

Your Hospital Bag – What to Pack

As a midwife, there is nothing worse! Read below 👇

There is nothing worse than seeing a partner or support person frantically rummaging around through a large suit case trying to find the one thing the woman wants or needs whilst in the throws of labour.

As a midwife, there is nothing worse! Read below 👇

There is nothing worse than seeing a partner or support person frantically rummaging around through a large suit case trying to find the one thing the woman wants or needs whilst in the throws of labour.

The Power of Visualisation…

Have you started visualising your labour and birth yet? 

Imagine the sensations, the feelings…
What is your partner/ support person doing to keep you centred and grounded? 
What’s the mood and environment like? 

Have you started visualising your labour and birth yet? 

Imagine the sensations, the feelings…
What is your partner/ support person doing to keep you centred and grounded? 
What’s the mood and environment like? 

Caesarean Birth

April is Caesarean Birth Awareness Month  

Throughout this month I hope to generate awareness and shed some light on caesarean births. Firstly, I call them caesarean births not ‘sections’ as words hold power and no matter how your baby was born it is a birth – your birth.

April is Caesarean Birth Awareness Month  

Throughout this month I hope to generate awareness and shed some light on caesarean births. Firstly, I call them caesarean births not ‘sections’ as words hold power and no matter how your baby was born it is a birth – your birth.

THE GOLDEN HOURS…

THE GOLDEN HOURS

From the time your baby is born and the first postpartum hours together

This is a sacred time.

Feeling safe, calm, private and undisturbed is paramount to this time

This is a time of great transition and adjustment

For Baby
For Mother
For the Family

THE GOLDEN HOURS

From the time your baby is born and the first postpartum hours together

This is a sacred time.

Feeling safe, calm, private and undisturbed is paramount to this time

This is a time of great transition and adjustment

For Baby
For Mother
For the Family

Fear – Tension – Pain

This theory was initially discovered by obstetrician Grantly Dick-Read in the 1920’s after observing women in labour. He noted that in an otherwise uncomplicated labour, it was the emotion of fear that caused complications. This theory has since been proven now that we understand the impact of the stress response on our body and hormones of labour and birth.

This theory was initially discovered by obstetrician Grantly Dick-Read in the 1920’s after observing women in labour. He noted that in an otherwise uncomplicated labour, it was the emotion of fear that caused complications. This theory has since been proven now that we understand the impact of the stress response on our body and hormones of labour and birth.

Honouring Optimal Cord Clamping

Here is some incredible info from @midwifethinking and @wait4white

“Wait for White” describes an umbilical cord which has completed its natural physiology (ceases pulsation) and is easily facilitated in the majority of births.

Here is some incredible info from @midwifethinking and @wait4white

“Wait for White” describes an umbilical cord which has completed its natural physiology (ceases pulsation) and is easily facilitated in the majority of births.

Let’s talk visitors

Bringing your baby home from hospital is a BIG deal! 

So it’s okay to feel hesitant, unsure, overwhelmed, or unexcited by the concept of visitors in the early postpartum period.

From a primitive and survival stand point, really, it’s only YOU that your baby wants and needs ✨

A baby’s first environment is their mother. 

A mother is also born. 

Bringing your baby home from hospital is a BIG deal! 

So it’s okay to feel hesitant, unsure, overwhelmed, or unexcited by the concept of visitors in the early postpartum period.

From a primitive and survival stand point, really, it’s only YOU that your baby wants and needs ✨

A baby’s first environment is their mother. 

A mother is also born. 

Creating and holding space – parents of the COVID pandemic

By Rachel Bridge

The journey into and through parenthood comes with so many expectations, from so many directions, well-meaning friends and family, health professionals, media, social media, as well as our own experiences and expectations of self.

When we begin stepping towards the journey of parenthood, hopes, dreams, desires start to surface. We envisage certain moments of our experience and how that may or may not look…the pregnancy announcement, the baby shower, maternity leave, birth, postpartum, pregnancy care, postpartum care, support, the list goes on.

By Rachel Bridge

The journey into and through parenthood comes with so many expectations, from so many directions, well-meaning friends and family, health professionals, media, social media, as well as our own experiences and expectations of self.

When we begin stepping towards the journey of parenthood, hopes, dreams, desires start to surface. We envisage certain moments of our experience and how that may or may not look…the pregnancy announcement, the baby shower, maternity leave, birth, postpartum, pregnancy care, postpartum care, support, the list goes on.

Believe that she can…

Partner and birth support people are vital for the birthing woman. I often acknowledge this responsibility early in my Calmbirth courses. Partners and birth support people, you have a big role to play. You are her person, her support, her advocate, her safe haven. Affirming words and holding space, believing she can will support physiological labour and birthing.

Partner and birth support people are vital for the birthing woman. I often acknowledge this responsibility early in my Calmbirth courses. Partners and birth support people, you have a big role to play. You are her person, her support, her advocate, her safe haven. Affirming words and holding space, believing she can will support physiological labour and birthing.

Labour is a dance…

Have you started building your labour and birth playlist yet?
 
We do this for other epic life events and occasions. We need to put the same amount of love and effort into our labour and birth playlist as we would for a once in a lifetime road trip, a groovy dinner party, wedding.

Have you started building your labour and birth playlist yet?
 
We do this for other epic life events and occasions. We need to put the same amount of love and effort into our labour and birth playlist as we would for a once in a lifetime road trip, a groovy dinner party, wedding.

The Feeding Station…

After spending A LOT of time in my feeding chair the past few weeks, it got me thinking about the feeding space and what has saved me from going bananas.

A fun fact…Breastfeeding for one year is approximately 1800 hours…
That’s a full-time job with 3 weeks annual leave…

No matter how you’re feeding your baby, you’ll be doing many feeds, cuddles, settling and sleeps here too!

After spending A LOT of time in my feeding chair the past few weeks, it got me thinking about the feeding space and what has saved me from going bananas.

A fun fact…Breastfeeding for one year is approximately 1800 hours…
That’s a full-time job with 3 weeks annual leave…

No matter how you’re feeding your baby, you’ll be doing many feeds, cuddles, settling and sleeps here too!

From Womb to Room – Your baby’s transition to life

“One last surge and your baby will be here. You are almost there.”

A final grunt, and her baby’s shoulders and body are moved between the worlds into the waiting hands of a care provider, her partner, or the mother herself.

These two, mother and baby, know each other so intimately, yet are meeting for the first time.

A moment of silence. A small intake of breath. Then, a cry.

This child who has only known fluid, is now one of air.

It is just seconds of time. From the outside, we see barely anything, but internally, these seconds bring the most complex changes our bodies ever do.

“One last surge and your baby will be here. You are almost there.”

A final grunt, and her baby’s shoulders and body are moved between the worlds into the waiting hands of a care provider, her partner, or the mother herself.

These two, mother and baby, know each other so intimately, yet are meeting for the first time.

A moment of silence. A small intake of breath. Then, a cry.

This child who has only known fluid, is now one of air.

It is just seconds of time. From the outside, we see barely anything, but internally, these seconds bring the most complex changes our bodies ever do.

50 Ways To Work With Your Labour!

You have so many inner resources that you can draw upon and utilise to serve you well in labour and birth!

Here are some – Just to name a few.

You have so many inner resources that you can draw upon and utilise to serve you well in labour and birth!

Here are some – Just to name a few.

Language and Communication Around Birth

“You are going to influence the psychological and organic life of your patients today and that may continue 20 years from now. So, you had better know what you are saying. You had better be willing to reflect upon the words you use, to wonder what their meanings are and to seek out and understand their many associations.” This statement by Dr Milton Erickson is especially true for the language around birth.

“You are going to influence the psychological and organic life of your patients today and that may continue 20 years from now. So, you had better know what you are saying. You had better be willing to reflect upon the words you use, to wonder what their meanings are and to seek out and understand their many associations.” This statement by Dr Milton Erickson is especially true for the language around birth.

The Power of Birth Affirmations

These can be such a powerful tool for birth.

The confidence boost you might need when it all feels too much.

Hearing those soft words whispered into your ear as you break between surges.

Reassurance that you’re doing it.

The encouragement to surrender.

A reminder to trust the process.

These can be such a powerful tool for birth.

The confidence boost you might need when it all feels too much.

Hearing those soft words whispered into your ear as you break between surges.

Reassurance that you’re doing it.

The encouragement to surrender.

A reminder to trust the process.

Transformers & Miracle Workers – How Your Body Changes in Pregnancy

Pregnancy is about more than just growing a baby.
Sure, technically that’s what it’s about, but for your body it means so much more.

Every single system of your body needs to change in some way to keep you and your baby healthy. Seems drastic, maybe, but growing new humans is a pretty drastic undertaking, wouldn’t you say?

There are of course a thousand different changes your body goes through during pregnancy, but here are 5 systems and the fascinating ways your body adapts them for pregnancy and to prepare for birth.

Happy reading!

Pregnancy is about more than just growing a baby.
Sure, technically that’s what it’s about, but for your body it means so much more.

Every single system of your body needs to change in some way to keep you and your baby healthy. Seems drastic, maybe, but growing new humans is a pretty drastic undertaking, wouldn’t you say?

There are of course a thousand different changes your body goes through during pregnancy, but here are 5 systems and the fascinating ways your body adapts them for pregnancy and to prepare for birth.

Happy reading!

Blue Hands Warm Heart – The normal colours of a newborn

When I am teaching parents about birth I intentionally include a picture of a baby when they are first born – many people are surprised by their initial colour! I find that in the first day after birth, one of the most common questions I get asked is about the colour of their baby’s hands and feet. We’re tackling these concepts in this blog post, so read on for more!

When I am teaching parents about birth I intentionally include a picture of a baby when they are first born – many people are surprised by their initial colour! I find that in the first day after birth, one of the most common questions I get asked is about the colour of their baby’s hands and feet. We’re tackling these concepts in this blog post, so read on for more!

How To Be A Good Villager Postpartum

To the family and friends that make up a new parents’ village,

There are few things that are more exciting than when one of your loved ones grows a new family member. There is a special responsibility that comes with being close to new parents, and ones that may well bring a shift in your relationship. You are entrusted to listen without judgement, to love them through their transformation into parenthood, and to pursue them through it. You are part of their village, and whether it’s their first baby or their thirteenth, there are lots of ways you can help. If you are new to the village (or a village veteran!) and want some tips, know that your thoughtfulness has already brought you halfway there! See below for more great ways to love on new parents.

To the family and friends that make up a new parents’ village,

There are few things that are more exciting than when one of your loved ones grows a new family member. There is a special responsibility that comes with being close to new parents, and ones that may well bring a shift in your relationship. You are entrusted to listen without judgement, to love them through their transformation into parenthood, and to pursue them through it. You are part of their village, and whether it’s their first baby or their thirteenth, there are lots of ways you can help. If you are new to the village (or a village veteran!) and want some tips, know that your thoughtfulness has already brought you halfway there! See below for more great ways to love on new parents.

Staying out of your head…

In labour, if we stay out of our critical and analytical part of our brain, surrendering to the primitive and instinctual brain, we place ourselves in a state of growth.

In labour, if we stay out of our critical and analytical part of our brain, surrendering to the primitive and instinctual brain, we place ourselves in a state of growth.

Breastfeeding on Demand…

Did you know that how often your baby needs to feed is based on your own unique breastmilk storage capacity and milk synthesis rate? Neither of these factors are up for manipulation and are unique to each mother/baby dyad.

Did you know that how often your baby needs to feed is based on your own unique breastmilk storage capacity and milk synthesis rate? Neither of these factors are up for manipulation and are unique to each mother/baby dyad.

The Calmbirth of baby Julian

I’m not crying, you’re crying…

Bianca & Mitch,

Your story is everything. Your words, your strength, your power. Thank you for sharing your journey. ‘with knowledge, comes confidence’ – Calmbirth

Hey Jess! Hope you have been well. Just thought I’d update you on some very exciting news and share with you my very positive birth story!

My baby boy couldn’t wait any longer and was born 3 weeks and a day early! Introducing Julian Gregory Napoleone, born 18.8.22

I got the natural birth I wanted and I whole heartedly believe it’s the learnings from your class that made that possible. Your class also gave my partner Mitch the tools and understanding to be the perfect support person throughout. We are so grateful we did your class and we cannot thank you enough.

I’m not crying, you’re crying…

Bianca & Mitch,

Your story is everything. Your words, your strength, your power. Thank you for sharing your journey. ‘with knowledge, comes confidence’ – Calmbirth

Hey Jess! Hope you have been well. Just thought I’d update you on some very exciting news and share with you my very positive birth story!

My baby boy couldn’t wait any longer and was born 3 weeks and a day early! Introducing Julian Gregory Napoleone, born 18.8.22

I got the natural birth I wanted and I whole heartedly believe it’s the learnings from your class that made that possible. Your class also gave my partner Mitch the tools and understanding to be the perfect support person throughout. We are so grateful we did your class and we cannot thank you enough.

WHEN SHOULD WE ATTEND A CALMBIRTH COURSE?

At what stage in the pregnancy do we attend a Calmbirth course?

I get this email a lot and it’s a great question!

The good news is, there’s a big range to work with when attending a Calmbirth course.

Optimal timing is between 28 – 36 weeks pregnant.

At what stage in the pregnancy do we attend a Calmbirth course?

I get this email a lot and it’s a great question!

The good news is, there’s a big range to work with when attending a Calmbirth course.

Optimal timing is between 28 – 36 weeks pregnant.

The Stats and Evidence is out…Here’s why Calmbirth gives you Better Birth Outcomes.

Calmbirth® – Prepares you emotionally, mentally, and physically for birth.

Calmbirth is Australia’s leading and fastest growing Childbirth Education Program. We take a very holistic and evidence based approach to our Education with the fundamental underpinning of the Program being the Mind-Body-Birth Connection.

The stats and evidence are out that prove that by attending a Calmbirth antenatal course you will have  better birth outcomes.

Calmbirth® – Prepares you emotionally, mentally, and physically for birth.

Calmbirth is Australia’s leading and fastest growing Childbirth Education Program. We take a very holistic and evidence based approach to our Education with the fundamental underpinning of the Program being the Mind-Body-Birth Connection.

The stats and evidence are out that prove that by attending a Calmbirth antenatal course you will have  better birth outcomes.

Advocating for your birth because your birth matters!

Birth. It can be so unpredictable, incredible, transformative, inspiring…it serves as such a huge catalyst for growth for so many of us! For some, it is the time when we find or rediscover our voices, we learn to navigate a system in an entirely new way. For others it can be a time of what feels like powerlessness; a lack of control or unwinding of plans. Ultimately, in any scenario, it is up to us as the individuals to take back our power, advocate for what we want and need, for what we believe is best for us and our babies. Control what we can, surrender to the rest

Birth. It can be so unpredictable, incredible, transformative, inspiring…it serves as such a huge catalyst for growth for so many of us! For some, it is the time when we find or rediscover our voices, we learn to navigate a system in an entirely new way. For others it can be a time of what feels like powerlessness; a lack of control or unwinding of plans. Ultimately, in any scenario, it is up to us as the individuals to take back our power, advocate for what we want and need, for what we believe is best for us and our babies. Control what we can, surrender to the rest

The Mind Shift – Rest during Labour

What if you went into labour thinking that 60% of the time you’d be resting?

That you have the opportunity and a choice to rest your mind and body for more than half the labour journey…

What if you went into labour thinking that 60% of the time you’d be resting?

That you have the opportunity and a choice to rest your mind and body for more than half the labour journey…

Birth Matters… Your birth experience matters….

Did you research buying a car?

Did your homework when planning an event like a wedding, or a surprise party?

Stalked the housing market?

Prepare for a job interview?

Childbirth Education is the same

‘With knowledge comes confidence’

And what if I told you it’s so much more…

Birth Matters…
Your birth experience matters….

Did you research buying a car?

Did your homework when planning an event like a wedding, or a surprise party?

Stalked the housing market?

Prepare for a job interview?

Childbirth Education is the same

‘With knowledge comes confidence’

And what if I told you it’s so much more…

Birth Matters…
Your birth experience matters….

Milk supply: “What will my breasts think?

One of the biggest reasons reported for stopping breastfeeding is low supply. This is where parents feel the amount of milk their baby receives from breastfeeding is not enough to meet their needs.

However, it’s actually very rare that a mother is unable to make enough breastmilk for her baby.

Have a read to learn more!

One of the biggest reasons reported for stopping breastfeeding is low supply. This is where parents feel the amount of milk their baby receives from breastfeeding is not enough to meet their needs.

However, it’s actually very rare that a mother is unable to make enough breastmilk for her baby.

Have a read to learn more!

5 natural pain relief options for labour…

Would you expect to feel your body working hard if you ran a marathon? For sure!

And more than likely you would educate yourself, and be physically and mentally prepared on how to manage.

It would be hard and probably impossible to just rock up and run 42km with no education or preparation and have a positive experience?? You could argue that labour and birth are no different!

Just as you can expect to feel the ‘normal’ physiological pain from running, you can expect with the uterine contractions of labour functional, physiological pain. So if you are well prepared you can definitely have a positive (and drug-free if you wish) labour and birth journey.

As a Midwife caring for labouring women for many years and teaching couples the Calmbirth® Childbirth Education program let me share my top 5 natural pain relief alternatives that can help you during labour.

Would you expect to feel your body working hard if you ran a marathon? For sure!

And more than likely you would educate yourself, and be physically and mentally prepared on how to manage.

It would be hard and probably impossible to just rock up and run 42km with no education or preparation and have a positive experience?? You could argue that labour and birth are no different!

Just as you can expect to feel the ‘normal’ physiological pain from running, you can expect with the uterine contractions of labour functional, physiological pain. So if you are well prepared you can definitely have a positive (and drug-free if you wish) labour and birth journey.

As a Midwife caring for labouring women for many years and teaching couples the Calmbirth® Childbirth Education program let me share my top 5 natural pain relief alternatives that can help you during labour.

The Calmbirth Conversation Podcast Episode 18. Creating an optimal microbiome during Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond.

Welcome to another episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast. In this episode 18 our Calmbirth Director Karen McClay talks with Emma Park. Emma is a Functional Nutritionist Clinician and Clinical Educator and is an industry leader in the field of gut health and the microbiome in the First 1000 Days of life.

Karen and Emma discuss the importance of the microbiome for pregnant mamas and people, and their babies, and how we can maintain and create an optimal environment for a healthy microbiome during pregnancy birth and postpartum. This is particularly important for those whose microbiome is already out of kilter e.g., they have a history of vaginitis, candida infections (thrush), recurrent UTI’s, GBS and mastitis.  Karen and Emma also discuss the impact that antibiotic use during pregnancy and birth, and caesarean births have on the microbiome and what these mamas and birthing people can do to help their and their baby’s microbiome recover.

If you would like more information on this you can have a look at Emma’s “The First 1000 days” course, or download her booklet, both of which can be found here: https://www.thefirst1000days.com.au/

And because stress is one of the biggest influences on a healthy microbiome, come and join us for a Calmbirth course because we are all about helping you to change your relationship to stress through knowledge and tools that will not only help during your pregnancy and birth but will continue to be an asset for the rest of your life. You can find a Calmbirth Educator near you here: https://calmbirth.com.au/

If you enjoyed this podcast episode please share with your friends, and tag us on our socials @calmbirth.

Welcome to another episode of the Calmbirth Conversation Podcast. In this episode 18 our Calmbirth Director Karen McClay talks with Emma Park. Emma is a Functional Nutritionist Clinician and Clinical Educator and is an industry leader in the field of gut health and the microbiome in the First 1000 Days of life.

Karen and Emma discuss the importance of the microbiome for pregnant mamas and people, and their babies, and how we can maintain and create an optimal environment for a healthy microbiome during pregnancy birth and postpartum. This is particularly important for those whose microbiome is already out of kilter e.g., they have a history of vaginitis, candida infections (thrush), recurrent UTI’s, GBS and mastitis.  Karen and Emma also discuss the impact that antibiotic use during pregnancy and birth, and caesarean births have on the microbiome and what these mamas and birthing people can do to help their and their baby’s microbiome recover.

If you would like more information on this you can have a look at Emma’s “The First 1000 days” course, or download her booklet, both of which can be found here: https://www.thefirst1000days.com.au/

And because stress is one of the biggest influences on a healthy microbiome, come and join us for a Calmbirth course because we are all about helping you to change your relationship to stress through knowledge and tools that will not only help during your pregnancy and birth but will continue to be an asset for the rest of your life. You can find a Calmbirth Educator near you here: https://calmbirth.com.au/

If you enjoyed this podcast episode please share with your friends, and tag us on our socials @calmbirth.

How to plan for your birth…

In life, we plan for most milestone events such as birthdays, holidays, marathons, weddings, and funerals so birth should be no different. In fact, planning for your birth is a game changer because your birth experience is one that you will remember forever and the way you feel about your birth matters. The more prepared you are with your birth preferences the better birth outcomes you will have both physically and emotionally.

So why not start by asking yourself these simple questions:

In life, we plan for most milestone events such as birthdays, holidays, marathons, weddings, and funerals so birth should be no different. In fact, planning for your birth is a game changer because your birth experience is one that you will remember forever and the way you feel about your birth matters. The more prepared you are with your birth preferences the better birth outcomes you will have both physically and emotionally.

So why not start by asking yourself these simple questions:

Let’s talk about prolapse

Did you know that about 1/2 of women who have had a child will have some level of prolapse? 1 in 5 women will need to seek professional support. That’s 20%!

I am one of those 1 in 5 women. And I’ve decided to share my story because just like with physiological birth, I feel like our ‘system’ does not support women’s pelvic health. There is not enough awareness, conversation, preventative strategies out there to support the needs of women in this space.

So I’m starting this conversation – with my prolapse story.

Did you know that about 1/2 of women who have had a child will have some level of prolapse? 1 in 5 women will need to seek professional support. That’s 20%!

I am one of those 1 in 5 women. And I’ve decided to share my story because just like with physiological birth, I feel like our ‘system’ does not support women’s pelvic health. There is not enough awareness, conversation, preventative strategies out there to support the needs of women in this space.

So I’m starting this conversation – with my prolapse story.

“Are you planning on breastfeeding?”

It’s part of the antenatal clinic checklist. To discuss a woman’s feeding preference.

“Are you planning on breastfeeding?”

The most common response I was usually given: “If I can”.

In Australian, our breastfeeding initiation rate at birth consistently sits above 95%. Data from the ABS (2020-2021) shows that by 2 months of age the rate of exclusively breastfed infants falls to approximately 75%, and then to approximately 66% at 4 months of age. What does this tell us? That women want to breastfeed. Yet something is happening in the early weeks and months, that results in this decline.

It’s part of the antenatal clinic checklist. To discuss a woman’s feeding preference.

“Are you planning on breastfeeding?”

The most common response I was usually given: “If I can”.

In Australian, our breastfeeding initiation rate at birth consistently sits above 95%. Data from the ABS (2020-2021) shows that by 2 months of age the rate of exclusively breastfed infants falls to approximately 75%, and then to approximately 66% at 4 months of age. What does this tell us? That women want to breastfeed. Yet something is happening in the early weeks and months, that results in this decline.

Waters Breaking

Pregnancy is not always smooth sailing for some women especially for those that suffer from Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) during much of their pregnancy.

Pregnancy is not always smooth sailing for some women especially for those that suffer from Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG) during much of their pregnancy.

Connection: Nurturing Meaningful Relationships

In a world driven by technology and fast-paced living, the essence of genuine connection often gets lost in the noise. Human beings are inherently social creatures, seeking companionship, understanding, and a sense of belonging.

In a world driven by technology and fast-paced living, the essence of genuine connection often gets lost in the noise. Human beings are inherently social creatures, seeking companionship, understanding, and a sense of belonging.

Bonnie & Pip’s dream VBAC birth story

Meet our dear Maeve! Hi Kath, I just wanted to let you know that I had my absolute dream birth experience with a successful VBAC.

Meet our dear Maeve! Hi Kath, I just wanted to let you know that I had my absolute dream birth experience with a successful VBAC.

Made with LOVE. Birthed with LOVE – Let’s talk about SEX baby…

I LOVE this photo because of the position – the made with love position – so let’s talk about sex baby!

Curious about sex during pregnancy? I know this can be a taboo subject that couples during this period may not be conformable to talk about, but here are some tips and FAQ about it.

I LOVE this photo because of the position – the made with love position – so let’s talk about sex baby!

Curious about sex during pregnancy? I know this can be a taboo subject that couples during this period may not be conformable to talk about, but here are some tips and FAQ about it.

Embracing the Nesting Period…

I’ll never forget being in my last trimester and I don’t know where I found my burst of energy from, but I nested like crazy!  It almost felt like I was possessed, and I feltcompelled to create a loving, clean, and nurturing environment for my baby. I was sewing curtains for the nursery, sanding down and painting an heirloom wooden box that was given to me from great grand ma to be turned into a clothes/toybox. Washing and folding all the baby clothes before the little one arrived so that they could smell like clothes softener and feel gentle on their fragile skin. I re arranged the furniture in my bedroom to accommodate for the bassinet and change table and got into baking!

I was in full gear, unstoppable. I was NESTING!

I’ll never forget being in my last trimester and I don’t know where I found my burst of energy from, but I nested like crazy!  It almost felt like I was possessed, and I feltcompelled to create a loving, clean, and nurturing environment for my baby. I was sewing curtains for the nursery, sanding down and painting an heirloom wooden box that was given to me from great grand ma to be turned into a clothes/toybox. Washing and folding all the baby clothes before the little one arrived so that they could smell like clothes softener and feel gentle on their fragile skin. I re arranged the furniture in my bedroom to accommodate for the bassinet and change table and got into baking!

I was in full gear, unstoppable. I was NESTING!

Embracing Change and Intimacy Postpartum

So, yesterday I posted a blog about Sex during pregnancy and now I want to discuss intimacy postpartum which can be even more awkward and terrifying to talk about…because you might not be ready physically and emotionally to go there – as you’ve just had a baby and adjusting to motherhood, your postpartum body and rollercoaster of emotions.

Just like pregnancy and birth is different for every woman so is her postpartum journey and even though intimacy is important your focus might just be on recovery, healing and nurturing your baby.

So, take your time. Some things you may want to consider are:

So, yesterday I posted a blog about Sex during pregnancy and now I want to discuss intimacy postpartum which can be even more awkward and terrifying to talk about…because you might not be ready physically and emotionally to go there – as you’ve just had a baby and adjusting to motherhood, your postpartum body and rollercoaster of emotions.

Just like pregnancy and birth is different for every woman so is her postpartum journey and even though intimacy is important your focus might just be on recovery, healing and nurturing your baby.

So, take your time. Some things you may want to consider are:

How to be an incredible support for labour…

Being a support person in labour is a HUGE role.

Think of yourself as the Sherpa helping her climb Mt.Everest, the fans at the MCG cheering on their sporting heros, the cheer squad running along side her as she crosses that marathon finish line.

You can make ALL the difference by knowing how to be an incredible support: Here’s 50 tips to guide you.

Being a support person in labour is a HUGE role.

Think of yourself as the Sherpa helping her climb Mt.Everest, the fans at the MCG cheering on their sporting heros, the cheer squad running along side her as she crosses that marathon finish line.

You can make ALL the difference by knowing how to be an incredible support: Here’s 50 tips to guide you.

The After Pains in the Postpartum Stage

Let’s talk about a topic that often gets overshadowed in the glow of new motherhood: After Pains.

What are After Pains, and are they normal?

After Pains, also known as postpartum contractions or uterine contractions, that may feel like period cramping, are a natural part of the post-birth process helping to shrink the uterus back to size. They occur a few days after childbirth and can last a few weeks, it may not be the most comfortable experience, and may feel weird because you have just had your baby yet feel like you are still having contractions. They tend to come on most significantly when you’re breastfeeding, as your body releases oxytocin. but they serve a crucial purpose. Here’s why you have them and why they are normal:

Let’s talk about a topic that often gets overshadowed in the glow of new motherhood: After Pains.

What are After Pains, and are they normal?

After Pains, also known as postpartum contractions or uterine contractions, that may feel like period cramping, are a natural part of the post-birth process helping to shrink the uterus back to size. They occur a few days after childbirth and can last a few weeks, it may not be the most comfortable experience, and may feel weird because you have just had your baby yet feel like you are still having contractions. They tend to come on most significantly when you’re breastfeeding, as your body releases oxytocin. but they serve a crucial purpose. Here’s why you have them and why they are normal:

Epidurals as pain relief…..

I don’t know about you, but I know when I was pregnant what scared me the most was not the actual labour or birth, but it was having to get an epidural if I needed one because I didn’t know too much about epidurals, when they might be needed, their risks, benefits, and how they differ from spinal blocks. As it turned out, I had to have a C section birth and ended up having a spinal block but here are the differences.

I don’t know about you, but I know when I was pregnant what scared me the most was not the actual labour or birth, but it was having to get an epidural if I needed one because I didn’t know too much about epidurals, when they might be needed, their risks, benefits, and how they differ from spinal blocks. As it turned out, I had to have a C section birth and ended up having a spinal block but here are the differences.

The Postpartum Journey…

I want to talk about the postpartum period that can leave you feeling quite fragile, lonely, and unprepared for.  I know when it was time for me to leave the hospital and go home, I cried because I knew I would be on my own without the support of my village. Recovering from a C Section birth, struggling with the challenges of breastfeeding my baby, having the three day blues, and having to learn to adjust to motherhood and the flood of emotions that come with the joy and self-doubt. To put it simply, I was unprepared for the lack of sleep and learning to read my baby’s cues and the loneliness that can come from being a new mum.

So here are a few tips or lessons learned to help you navigate the fourth trimester.

I want to talk about the postpartum period that can leave you feeling quite fragile, lonely, and unprepared for.  I know when it was time for me to leave the hospital and go home, I cried because I knew I would be on my own without the support of my village. Recovering from a C Section birth, struggling with the challenges of breastfeeding my baby, having the three day blues, and having to learn to adjust to motherhood and the flood of emotions that come with the joy and self-doubt. To put it simply, I was unprepared for the lack of sleep and learning to read my baby’s cues and the loneliness that can come from being a new mum.

So here are a few tips or lessons learned to help you navigate the fourth trimester.

Fear Tension Pain Theory

“Calmbirth is the MOST amazing birthing programme out there. I really wish every couple could have the chance to do this course.”

“Calmbirth is the MOST amazing birthing programme out there. I really wish every couple could have the chance to do this course.”

Connection through Conversation – Perinatal Mental Health Week 12th -18th November

Connection through Conversation – Perinatal Mental Health Week 12th -18th November

At Calmbirth we believe having a strong connection to your baby, body, birth support partner, birth and caregiver during your pregnancy labour and birth are vital to achieving a positive birth experience. But we also believe that this connection needs to continue right through until the postpartum period and into your transition to becoming new parents whilst seeking and budling your village.

Connection through Conversation – Perinatal Mental Health Week 12th -18th November

At Calmbirth we believe having a strong connection to your baby, body, birth support partner, birth and caregiver during your pregnancy labour and birth are vital to achieving a positive birth experience. But we also believe that this connection needs to continue right through until the postpartum period and into your transition to becoming new parents whilst seeking and budling your village.

Plan your Birth like it’s your Wedding Day!

“Most major life events are able to be pre-planned, but birth is an event that is mostly out of our control in regard to timing and what may happen to both mother and baby (which seems a bit scary), so being prepared with the tools and knowledge to make quick decisions in the moments of birth has made my Husband and I feel relaxed about the future birth and confident in our choices. We look forward to the day instead of feeling anxious about the unknown. I would highly recommend the Calmbirth course to all future parents.” -Calmbirth couple

“Most major life events are able to be pre-planned, but birth is an event that is mostly out of our control in regard to timing and what may happen to both mother and baby (which seems a bit scary), so being prepared with the tools and knowledge to make quick decisions in the moments of birth has made my Husband and I feel relaxed about the future birth and confident in our choices. We look forward to the day instead of feeling anxious about the unknown. I would highly recommend the Calmbirth course to all future parents.” -Calmbirth couple

The power of your mindset, hormones and environment in birth

The power of your mindset, hormones and environment can play such a vital role in making you feel safe, calm and private for the kind of birth that can unfold for you, as Calmbirth mum, Tara discovered when she birthed her beautiful baby Cohen James.

The power of your mindset, hormones and environment can play such a vital role in making you feel safe, calm and private for the kind of birth that can unfold for you, as Calmbirth mum, Tara discovered when she birthed her beautiful baby Cohen James.

Oxytocin – the love hormone at play during pregnancy, labour and birth

Pregnancy, labour, and birth are intricate processes that involve a myriad of physiological and emotional changes. Amidst this complexity, one remarkable hormone plays a pivotal role—oxytocin. Often referred to as the “love hormone” or “bonding hormone,” oxytocin is associated with social bonding, trust, and intimacy. However, its significance goes far beyond romantic relationships, as it profoundly influences the journey of pregnancy, labour, and birth, and the transformative stages of motherhood.

Pregnancy, labour, and birth are intricate processes that involve a myriad of physiological and emotional changes. Amidst this complexity, one remarkable hormone plays a pivotal role—oxytocin. Often referred to as the “love hormone” or “bonding hormone,” oxytocin is associated with social bonding, trust, and intimacy. However, its significance goes far beyond romantic relationships, as it profoundly influences the journey of pregnancy, labour, and birth, and the transformative stages of motherhood.

Book Review : The Birth Map

I’d heard of birth plans but I’d never heard of a birth map or birth cartography until I was listening to episode six of The Calmbirth Conversation podcast featuring Catherine Bell, author of “The Birth Map”.  I was inspired and intrigued and I knew I wanted to know more so I read the book and I am so glad I did.  I love seeing birth plans in my patients files but reading this book has changed the way I talk to couples about how to document their informed decisions for their care and what they need to know when navigating the hospital system

I’d heard of birth plans but I’d never heard of a birth map or birth cartography until I was listening to episode six of The Calmbirth Conversation podcast featuring Catherine Bell, author of “The Birth Map”.  I was inspired and intrigued and I knew I wanted to know more so I read the book and I am so glad I did.  I love seeing birth plans in my patients files but reading this book has changed the way I talk to couples about how to document their informed decisions for their care and what they need to know when navigating the hospital system

Harnessing the Strength Within: The Profound Impact of Conscious Breathing in Childbirth.

Childbirth is a remarkable journey, marked by a tapestry of emotions, sensations, and challenges. Amidst this whirlwind, there exists a potent yet often overlooked ally: conscious breathing. More than a mere physiological response, intentional breathing holds the key to unlocking a deeper connection with oneself, one’s partner, and the miracle of new life.

Childbirth is a remarkable journey, marked by a tapestry of emotions, sensations, and challenges. Amidst this whirlwind, there exists a potent yet often overlooked ally: conscious breathing. More than a mere physiological response, intentional breathing holds the key to unlocking a deeper connection with oneself, one’s partner, and the miracle of new life.

Remember there are NO – ‘dumb questions’ – just one you don’t have an answer to right now.

A lot of the fear around birth and birth trauma today comes from fear of the unknown, lack of knowledge, feeling of being out of control, feeling things were ‘done to you’ and questioning consent, which in turn leads to us feeling inadequate, failing, traumatised, etc.  These are very valid feelings and it is recognised more and more – however instead of questioning yourself and considering you have failed perhaps start with an unanswered question and JUST ASK, even if it is after the event and you need clarity and understanding therein allowing you to have a better comprehension of your experience and being better prepared for what is necessary for your future,  should you need counselling, ongoing care, preparation for future births.

A lot of the fear around birth and birth trauma today comes from fear of the unknown, lack of knowledge, feeling of being out of control, feeling things were ‘done to you’ and questioning consent, which in turn leads to us feeling inadequate, failing, traumatised, etc.  These are very valid feelings and it is recognised more and more – however instead of questioning yourself and considering you have failed perhaps start with an unanswered question and JUST ASK, even if it is after the event and you need clarity and understanding therein allowing you to have a better comprehension of your experience and being better prepared for what is necessary for your future,  should you need counselling, ongoing care, preparation for future births.

Mastitis

We all know that for some women breastfeeding can be challenging at the best of times for many different reasons but throw mastitis in the mix and it can be more than just challenging because it also becomes painful.

We all know that for some women breastfeeding can be challenging at the best of times for many different reasons but throw mastitis in the mix and it can be more than just challenging because it also becomes painful.

Childbirth Education in Australia

Listen to Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth and practicing midwife, discuss the state of childbirth education in Australia and the importance of unified, evidence-based childbirth education that involves both partners to better support women during childbirth.

Listen to Karen McClay, Director of Calmbirth and practicing midwife, discuss the state of childbirth education in Australia and the importance of unified, evidence-based childbirth education that involves both partners to better support women during childbirth.

The Hormones of Labour and Birth

Have you ever wondered why our pets seek out a quiet, dark, and private space to give birth? You might have noticed that your furry friend has chosen to burrow into your favourite dressing gown, prompting you to disturb them to save your cuddly, warm, and well-worn dressing gown from being covered in birthing remnants. Now that you’ve interrupted her, she scurries away. This makes you ponder and compare your birthing wishes with your fur child’s labour and birth process.

Have you ever wondered why our pets seek out a quiet, dark, and private space to give birth? You might have noticed that your furry friend has chosen to burrow into your favourite dressing gown, prompting you to disturb them to save your cuddly, warm, and well-worn dressing gown from being covered in birthing remnants. Now that you’ve interrupted her, she scurries away. This makes you ponder and compare your birthing wishes with your fur child’s labour and birth process.

Book Review: Vitamin K & the Newborn written by Sara Wickham

HI first heard Sara Wickham on a midwives podcast speaking about her latest book “Plus size pregnancy” and I was inspired by her knowledge, experience, passion for women’s autonomy and her soothing accent. Sara practiced midwifery for over 30 years, lectured in over 30 countries and has authored and edited 18 books (for more information on Sarah’s extensive qualifications and experience see About – Dr Sara Wickham.

HI first heard Sara Wickham on a midwives podcast speaking about her latest book “Plus size pregnancy” and I was inspired by her knowledge, experience, passion for women’s autonomy and her soothing accent. Sara practiced midwifery for over 30 years, lectured in over 30 countries and has authored and edited 18 books (for more information on Sarah’s extensive qualifications and experience see About – Dr Sara Wickham.

Navigating Childbirth in 2025

The journey to parenthood in 2025 comes with its unique challenges. With the pressures of modern life, evolving healthcare systems, and the ever-present digital noise, many expectant parents are seeking ways to feel empowered, supported, and confident in their birthing experience. One of the most valuable tools available is education—understanding the physiological and emotional aspects of birth can make all the difference. This is where CalmBirth, a scientifically backed childbirth education program, becomes an essential part of your journey. 

The journey to parenthood in 2025 comes with its unique challenges. With the pressures of modern life, evolving healthcare systems, and the ever-present digital noise, many expectant parents are seeking ways to feel empowered, supported, and confident in their birthing experience. One of the most valuable tools available is education—understanding the physiological and emotional aspects of birth can make all the difference. This is where CalmBirth, a scientifically backed childbirth education program, becomes an essential part of your journey. 

5 non-essential (but helpful) things to put in your hospital bag

There are a million different lists and “Pack my birth bag with me” videos to watch out there. I’m always interested to see what people consider the ‘essentials’ to bring with them to have a baby and recover from birth. I’ve cared for a lot of women on the postnatal ward in hospital and I like to think I’m pretty self-aware, so you’ll see from the title that I don’t believe any of these things are necessary for a positive, nourishing postpartum. But, maybe you, like me, always grab your biggest suitcase even if you’re only packing for a weekend and fill it with everything you WILL need, plus a bunch of stuff you MIGHT need and a few things you almost definitely don’t, but WHAT IF YOU DO.

So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

There are a million different lists and “Pack my birth bag with me” videos to watch out there. I’m always interested to see what people consider the ‘essentials’ to bring with them to have a baby and recover from birth. I’ve cared for a lot of women on the postnatal ward in hospital and I like to think I’m pretty self-aware, so you’ll see from the title that I don’t believe any of these things are necessary for a positive, nourishing postpartum. But, maybe you, like me, always grab your biggest suitcase even if you’re only packing for a weekend and fill it with everything you WILL need, plus a bunch of stuff you MIGHT need and a few things you almost definitely don’t, but WHAT IF YOU DO.

So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

My Journey as a Calmbirth Educator and Breastfeeding Advocate

I have been a Calmbirth educator for 8 years. Becoming a Calmbirth educator has been one of the most fulfilling and inspiring roles of my life. It gives me the opportunity to support expectant parents during one of the most transformative times they’ll ever experience. More than just teaching techniques, Calmbirth is about nurturing confidence, connection, and trust in the birth process and I’m privileged to witness that transformation with every family I work with.
So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

I have been a Calmbirth educator for 8 years. Becoming a Calmbirth educator has been one of the most fulfilling and inspiring roles of my life. It gives me the opportunity to support expectant parents during one of the most transformative times they’ll ever experience. More than just teaching techniques, Calmbirth is about nurturing confidence, connection, and trust in the birth process and I’m privileged to witness that transformation with every family I work with.
So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

Making the most of your postpartum hospital stay

If you are planning to have your baby in hospital, the length of time you stay in hospital after birth will typically range between 4 hours and 5 days. This will all depend on where you have your baby, your model of care, your birth, your postnatal and feeding experience, and the follow up you have available once you’re discharged.

Some new families can’t wait to get home and start their new lives with a new family member, while others are eager for all the support and advice they can get before they set off on their own.

Whatever your preference and however long you stay, here are some tips on how to make the most of that time.So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

If you are planning to have your baby in hospital, the length of time you stay in hospital after birth will typically range between 4 hours and 5 days. This will all depend on where you have your baby, your model of care, your birth, your postnatal and feeding experience, and the follow up you have available once you’re discharged.

Some new families can’t wait to get home and start their new lives with a new family member, while others are eager for all the support and advice they can get before they set off on their own.

Whatever your preference and however long you stay, here are some tips on how to make the most of that time.So here’s a list of a few of the things that fit into the ‘not necessary but probable helpful’ category that my heart lives in – little tips from a midwife who has never, and will never, ‘pack light’.

Support Her Like Everything Depends On it!

How to Truly Show Up for a Mother in Birth and Postpartum

Birth isn’t just something a mother does—it’s something she becomes. She enters a vulnerable, sacred space where her entire being is focused on one thing: bringing her baby earthside. It’s intense, primal, and all-consuming. She needs more than presence—she needs to feel held, seen, and protected.

Whether in a hospital or at home, whether it’s her first baby or her fifth, the kind of support she receives shapes her entire experience.

How to Truly Show Up for a Mother in Birth and Postpartum

Birth isn’t just something a mother does—it’s something she becomes. She enters a vulnerable, sacred space where her entire being is focused on one thing: bringing her baby earthside. It’s intense, primal, and all-consuming. She needs more than presence—she needs to feel held, seen, and protected.

Whether in a hospital or at home, whether it’s her first baby or her fifth, the kind of support she receives shapes her entire experience.

Natural birth is culturally not acceptable but physiologically normal

The recent passing of Michel Odent has got me thinking about the legacy he has left behind; just how visionary, progressive, woman and midwifery centred he was. How passionate he was about physiological birth, for respecting and creating that safe and undisturbed space for the birthing woman and her partner.  He is known for introducing water & birthing pools for labour and birth into hospitals and encouraging breastfeeding & skin to skin in the first 24 hours and he was the first to label oxytocin the hormone of love.

Dr Michel Odent reminded us that birth is not a medical process to be controlled, but a primal rhythm to be respected.

The recent passing of Michel Odent has got me thinking about the legacy he has left behind; just how visionary, progressive, woman and midwifery centred he was. How passionate he was about physiological birth, for respecting and creating that safe and undisturbed space for the birthing woman and her partner.  He is known for introducing water & birthing pools for labour and birth into hospitals and encouraging breastfeeding & skin to skin in the first 24 hours and he was the first to label oxytocin the hormone of love.

Dr Michel Odent reminded us that birth is not a medical process to be controlled, but a primal rhythm to be respected.

The Calmbirth Weekend Experience In The Southern Highlands For Parents-to-Be

Calmbirth® in the Southern Highlands carries a proud family legacy, providing couples a transformative weekend program that blends practical tools, mindfulness, and the science of birth to empower every birthing journey.

Calmbirth® in the Southern Highlands carries a proud family legacy, providing couples a transformative weekend program that blends practical tools, mindfulness, and the science of birth to empower every birthing journey.

The Benefits of Physiological Birth for well Mothers and Babies

Last week we spoke about Natural birth being culturally not acceptable but physiologically normal in what has become an overmedicalized maternity care system. This week we want to share with you some of the amazing benefits from having a physiological birth and the evidence-based research and practices to support this. And the significance of putting the power back in your own hands by making informed decisions not based on fear mongering practices and information – but from a place of confidence, and education imparted by those that know birth the best whilst preserving your emotional and physical wellbeing in birth.

Last week we spoke about Natural birth being culturally not acceptable but physiologically normal in what has become an overmedicalized maternity care system. This week we want to share with you some of the amazing benefits from having a physiological birth and the evidence-based research and practices to support this. And the significance of putting the power back in your own hands by making informed decisions not based on fear mongering practices and information – but from a place of confidence, and education imparted by those that know birth the best whilst preserving your emotional and physical wellbeing in birth.

What if Birth Could Feel Calm?

For many couples, the word birth is often tied to fear, pain, or uncertainty. We’ve all grown up surrounded by dramatic portrayals of birth on TV, stories from friends and family, or even past experiences that have left us believing birth is something to “get through” rather than something to embrace.

For many couples, the word birth is often tied to fear, pain, or uncertainty. We’ve all grown up surrounded by dramatic portrayals of birth on TV, stories from friends and family, or even past experiences that have left us believing birth is something to “get through” rather than something to embrace.

Birth as a Labyrinth: Finding Your Way Through the Journey

When we think of birth, many of us imagine a straight path from pregnancy to baby, a predictable route where we know what’s coming next. But birth rarely unfolds like a straight road. Instead, it’s more like a labyrinth. A winding, inward journey where each turn invites you deeper into your own strength and intuition.

When we think of birth, many of us imagine a straight path from pregnancy to baby, a predictable route where we know what’s coming next. But birth rarely unfolds like a straight road. Instead, it’s more like a labyrinth. A winding, inward journey where each turn invites you deeper into your own strength and intuition.

Birth Prep Beyond the Birth Plan

When most people think about preparing for birth, they think about writing a birth plan, a list of preferences for labour and delivery. And while birth plans are helpful, they’re only one small piece of the puzzle.

Preparing for birth is about more than what happens on the day. It’s about your mindset, your knowledge, and your connection to your support team.

When most people think about preparing for birth, they think about writing a birth plan, a list of preferences for labour and delivery. And while birth plans are helpful, they’re only one small piece of the puzzle.

Preparing for birth is about more than what happens on the day. It’s about your mindset, your knowledge, and your connection to your support team.

Navigating the Art and Science of Birth in Today’s Complex Maternity Care System

In today’s maternity care landscape, birth is often approached through the lens of science —Evidence Based Care – medical practices that are grounded in the best available research, scientific studies, and clinical guidelines including: protocols, measurements, procedures, timelines, and data, and statistics. While this clinical structure brings undeniable value, it sometimes leaves little room for the art of birth: the intuitive, emotional. psychological, fluid, deeply human side of the experience.

But birth is not just a medical event. It’s also a physiological, emotional, spiritual, and transformative journey. And navigating that journey requires both the precision of science and the wisdom of our intuition.

So how do we find that balance within a system that tends to lean heavily toward one side?

In today’s maternity care landscape, birth is often approached through the lens of science —Evidence Based Care – medical practices that are grounded in the best available research, scientific studies, and clinical guidelines including: protocols, measurements, procedures, timelines, and data, and statistics. While this clinical structure brings undeniable value, it sometimes leaves little room for the art of birth: the intuitive, emotional. psychological, fluid, deeply human side of the experience.

But birth is not just a medical event. It’s also a physiological, emotional, spiritual, and transformative journey. And navigating that journey requires both the precision of science and the wisdom of our intuition.

So how do we find that balance within a system that tends to lean heavily toward one side?

The Spirituality of Birth

I thought today we could discuss the spirituality of birth. This is a well covered topic online, but here’s my point of view. I’ve had over 12 years experience around birth in the hospital setting, and just a few life-changing experiences with home birth (including my own). There are some really important differences. I would also like to acknowledge that these writings are my own opinion, and not everything is true for everyone.

I thought today we could discuss the spirituality of birth. This is a well covered topic online, but here’s my point of view. I’ve had over 12 years experience around birth in the hospital setting, and just a few life-changing experiences with home birth (including my own). There are some really important differences. I would also like to acknowledge that these writings are my own opinion, and not everything is true for everyone.

10 Things Every Pregnant Woman Deserves to Know About Birth

From Midwife & Calmbirth Educator, Georgina Sproule

Pregnancy and birth are often surrounded by noise; other people’s opinions, advice, and expectations. As a Midwife and Calmbirth educator, I’ve supported countless women through pregnancy, labour, birth, and the early postpartum period. These are the ten things I wish every pregnant woman truly understood before birth.

From Midwife & Calmbirth Educator, Georgina Sproule

Pregnancy and birth are often surrounded by noise; other people’s opinions, advice, and expectations. As a Midwife and Calmbirth educator, I’ve supported countless women through pregnancy, labour, birth, and the early postpartum period. These are the ten things I wish every pregnant woman truly understood before birth.

Birthing and Marathon running – Both need preparation!

Giving birth is very like running a marathon and your preparation needs to reflect that.

If you look at marathon training apps they all recommend about 16 weeks(4 months) of physical training to be able to confidently complete the distance

The other thing any experienced marathon runner will tell you is that “it is a mind game, more than a physical game”

Finally, everyone emphasises the importance of nutrition, both leading into a marathon but also on the day. Energy in equals energy out.

Giving birth is very like running a marathon and your preparation needs to reflect that.

If you look at marathon training apps they all recommend about 16 weeks(4 months) of physical training to be able to confidently complete the distance

The other thing any experienced marathon runner will tell you is that “it is a mind game, more than a physical game”

Finally, everyone emphasises the importance of nutrition, both leading into a marathon but also on the day. Energy in equals energy out.

There Is No One Right Way to Birth

All births are unique like journeys in life and all women are extraordinary. 
Not because she birthed a certain way, but because they always rise to meet it however it unfolds.

All births are unique like journeys in life and all women are extraordinary. 
Not because she birthed a certain way, but because they always rise to meet it however it unfolds.

How to feel Calm before birth (even if you’re anxious)

Hello again birth nerds,

Today I’m going to have a little yarn about feeling calm about birth. Now, I hate the idea that we are trying to be ‘perfect’ or instagram worthy in birth, so this blog is certainly not about that. That’s quite the antithesis of what I am always prattling on about. If you’ve been following along for a while, you’ll know that if you are feeling observed or not completely uninhibited in your space (whether via a camera pointed at you or a midwife you don’t feel totally comfortable with) then you may find some tension in your body and in your mind. You’re capacity to ‘let go’ here is your best birth friend.

Hello again birth nerds,

Today I’m going to have a little yarn about feeling calm about birth. Now, I hate the idea that we are trying to be ‘perfect’ or instagram worthy in birth, so this blog is certainly not about that. That’s quite the antithesis of what I am always prattling on about. If you’ve been following along for a while, you’ll know that if you are feeling observed or not completely uninhibited in your space (whether via a camera pointed at you or a midwife you don’t feel totally comfortable with) then you may find some tension in your body and in your mind. You’re capacity to ‘let go’ here is your best birth friend.

Fear–Tension–Pain Cycle

When we talk about birth, we often focus on the physical process — contractions, dilation, stages of labour. But one of the most powerful influences on how birth unfolds is something less visible: fear.

The concept of the fear–tension–pain cycle helps explain why mindset and emotional safety matter so deeply in labour — and why preparation goes far beyond simply knowing what happens in each stage.

When we talk about birth, we often focus on the physical process — contractions, dilation, stages of labour. But one of the most powerful influences on how birth unfolds is something less visible: fear.

The concept of the fear–tension–pain cycle helps explain why mindset and emotional safety matter so deeply in labour — and why preparation goes far beyond simply knowing what happens in each stage.

Caesareans are still sacred

A planned caesarean birth is still an amazing day. It is the day you finally meet your baby and there are ways you can make it individual and special.

A planned caesarean birth is still an amazing day. It is the day you finally meet your baby and there are ways you can make it individual and special.

Using AI to Find The Best Birth Preparation Course.

Recently, a couple booked into one of my Calmbirth classes in Melbourne in a very modern way.

Dad found me through AI.

He’d decided that if they were going to prepare properly for birth, he wanted something practical and evidence-based. So he asked AI:

“How do we best prepare for birth?”

The suggestions included antenatal classes, breathing techniques, partner support and pain management options.

Then he asked:
“Which birth education courses are backed by research?”

That’s when Calmbirth came up.

Recently, a couple booked into one of my Calmbirth classes in Melbourne in a very modern way.

Dad found me through AI.

He’d decided that if they were going to prepare properly for birth, he wanted something practical and evidence-based. So he asked AI:

“How do we best prepare for birth?”

The suggestions included antenatal classes, breathing techniques, partner support and pain management options.

Then he asked:
“Which birth education courses are backed by research?”

That’s when Calmbirth came up.

What is a positive birth experience?

There is no ‘perfect’ birth experience.

Positive birth can look like:

Planned caesarean
Waterbirth
Planned induction
Homebirth
Pain relief
No pain relief

And SO many variations in between..

There is no ‘perfect’ birth experience.

Positive birth can look like:

Planned caesarean
Waterbirth
Planned induction
Homebirth
Pain relief
No pain relief

And SO many variations in between..

The Golden hour

The golden hour is the first hour (or 2) following baby’s arrival. Skin to skin with mum is strongly encouraged whenever possible.

The golden hour is the first hour (or 2) following baby’s arrival. Skin to skin with mum is strongly encouraged whenever possible.

When “Calm” Isn’t Calm

When Calm Isn’t Calm: Recognising Dissociation in Labour and Gently Guiding Mum Back to Presence.

When Calm Isn’t Calm: Recognising Dissociation in Labour and Gently Guiding Mum Back to Presence.

Power of Partnership: Navigating Pregnancy, Birth, labour and; Parenthood

As a midwife, I’ve witnessed many life-changing moments, but few are as profound as the birth of a child, it’s almost divine, still gives me chills and I will admit I still shed a tear each time I witness a baby enter our world. It’s a time of transformation, particularly for the couple as you become a family or add to your family. One of the most important aspects of this journey is the strength of the relationship between the birthing mother and her partner. When a couple stands together, united in love, trust, and support, it creates a powerful foundation for this precious new chapter of life.

As a midwife, I’ve witnessed many life-changing moments, but few are as profound as the birth of a child, it’s almost divine, still gives me chills and I will admit I still shed a tear each time I witness a baby enter our world. It’s a time of transformation, particularly for the couple as you become a family or add to your family. One of the most important aspects of this journey is the strength of the relationship between the birthing mother and her partner. When a couple stands together, united in love, trust, and support, it creates a powerful foundation for this precious new chapter of life.

Getting to Know Calmbirth Educator Karen Garzoli

For the past 9 years I’ve had the privilege of teaching Calmbirth, and it continues to be one of the most rewarding parts of my work.

For the past 9 years I’ve had the privilege of teaching Calmbirth, and it continues to be one of the most rewarding parts of my work.

Waterbirth: Exploring the Benefits and Considerations

In recent years, waterbirth has gained popularity as a natural and empowering way to bring your little one into the world. But what exactly does waterbirth entail, and what should you consider before making this choice? Let’s dive in.

The concept of the fear–tension–pain cycle helps explain why mindset and emotional safety matter so deeply in labour — and why preparation goes far beyond simply knowing what happens in each stage.

In recent years, waterbirth has gained popularity as a natural and empowering way to bring your little one into the world. But what exactly does waterbirth entail, and what should you consider before making this choice? Let’s dive in.

The concept of the fear–tension–pain cycle helps explain why mindset and emotional safety matter so deeply in labour — and why preparation goes far beyond simply knowing what happens in each stage.

My top questions to be asking your caregiver

I encourage my Calmbirth couples to start having conversations with their caregivers about their preferences for pregnancy, birth and postpartum as early as possible.
This allows the establishment of rapport, development of trust, and open dialogue. It allows you to become familiar with the preferences and policies of your caregiver/place of birth, they become aware of your wishes, and this hopefully means there are less unknowns in labour.

I encourage my Calmbirth couples to start having conversations with their caregivers about their preferences for pregnancy, birth and postpartum as early as possible.
This allows the establishment of rapport, development of trust, and open dialogue. It allows you to become familiar with the preferences and policies of your caregiver/place of birth, they become aware of your wishes, and this hopefully means there are less unknowns in labour.

Why choose Calmbirth?

Over the years of supporting various families through their pregnancy, birth and postpartum journeys, I have been asked numerous times about what birth education I most recommend. Initially I didn’t have a great answer for this, I’d just say, ‘Here are some local options, take a look and decide which one fits you and your family best!’. I didn’t recommend any one education model over another, but I did notice that oftentimes the families undertaking Calmbirth classes had so much more information and preparation, not just for their ‘ideal birth’, but also for the potential changes in plans that can arise – they seemed to have an understanding of and a preparedness for whatever the birth entailed, and tools they could use regardless of where they ended up. I love that I witnessed this before knowing Calmbirth’s motto: ‘With knowledge comes confidence’!

Over the years of supporting various families through their pregnancy, birth and postpartum journeys, I have been asked numerous times about what birth education I most recommend. Initially I didn’t have a great answer for this, I’d just say, ‘Here are some local options, take a look and decide which one fits you and your family best!’. I didn’t recommend any one education model over another, but I did notice that oftentimes the families undertaking Calmbirth classes had so much more information and preparation, not just for their ‘ideal birth’, but also for the potential changes in plans that can arise – they seemed to have an understanding of and a preparedness for whatever the birth entailed, and tools they could use regardless of where they ended up. I love that I witnessed this before knowing Calmbirth’s motto: ‘With knowledge comes confidence’!

Book review: “Mobile Midwives, transforming birth options. A memoir.”

I am fortunate to work with a lovely group of midwives.  They are a very social bunch and love any excuse for a morning or afternoon tea, after work meetups and celebrations.  If you work with us and go on maternity leave, be prepared to leave full of yummy food and with a basket of presents so big you’ll have to get someone else to carry it to your car! Christmas is, of course, always well celebrated with multiple end of year gatherings.  My highlight is a secret Santa gift exchange with afternoon tea.  Every time I’ve been able to participate, I’ve been thrilled to receive a book or two. I feel like my workmates know me well, as on my meal breaks I can generally be found tucked up in the corner of the tearoom with a book and a big cup of tea.

I am fortunate to work with a lovely group of midwives.  They are a very social bunch and love any excuse for a morning or afternoon tea, after work meetups and celebrations.  If you work with us and go on maternity leave, be prepared to leave full of yummy food and with a basket of presents so big you’ll have to get someone else to carry it to your car! Christmas is, of course, always well celebrated with multiple end of year gatherings.  My highlight is a secret Santa gift exchange with afternoon tea.  Every time I’ve been able to participate, I’ve been thrilled to receive a book or two. I feel like my workmates know me well, as on my meal breaks I can generally be found tucked up in the corner of the tearoom with a book and a big cup of tea.

Birthing to the beat of your own drum

Drums have a unique rhythm and it is believed that drummers are the heartbeat of the band. The relationship between a drummer and their drum includes a blend of physical energy, emotional expression and often the technical skills required to feel the groove rather than just play.

Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

Drums have a unique rhythm and it is believed that drummers are the heartbeat of the band. The relationship between a drummer and their drum includes a blend of physical energy, emotional expression and often the technical skills required to feel the groove rather than just play.

Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

Tips for staying active in labour

We’ve all heard that staying active in labour is the golden standard for encouraging natural progression of labour and birth. But what does that actually mean? Here are some simple tips for how to stay active in labour & let your body lead the way!
Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

We’ve all heard that staying active in labour is the golden standard for encouraging natural progression of labour and birth. But what does that actually mean? Here are some simple tips for how to stay active in labour & let your body lead the way!
Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

Supporting your nervous system postpartum

The postpartum period can be such a joyful time filled with love and bonding —but it’s also a time of profound physical, emotional, and neurological change. After birth, your nervous system can feel overstimulated, depleted, or stuck in a constant state of alert. Whether it shows up as anxiety, irritability, trouble sleeping, or feeling overwhelmed, this is a deeply human response to a major life transition.

Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

The postpartum period can be such a joyful time filled with love and bonding —but it’s also a time of profound physical, emotional, and neurological change. After birth, your nervous system can feel overstimulated, depleted, or stuck in a constant state of alert. Whether it shows up as anxiety, irritability, trouble sleeping, or feeling overwhelmed, this is a deeply human response to a major life transition.

Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

Hospital Bag Checklist for Birth in Australia

In the twenty years Regina Power has taught the Calmbirth program, one of the questions that couples often ask her is what they need to bring when they go into hospital. Many of the lists are from other countries, but we are fortunate here in Australia that our maternity system provides a number of essentials. Therefore, she thought that it would be helpful to give parents some ideas as to what they may want to pack for their birth and their stay in hospital afterwards. 
Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

In the twenty years Regina Power has taught the Calmbirth program, one of the questions that couples often ask her is what they need to bring when they go into hospital. Many of the lists are from other countries, but we are fortunate here in Australia that our maternity system provides a number of essentials. Therefore, she thought that it would be helpful to give parents some ideas as to what they may want to pack for their birth and their stay in hospital afterwards. 
Calming your nervous system postpartum isn’t about “fixing” yourself—it’s about creating small, supportive conditions that help your body feel safe again.
Birth too has a rhythm and it is believed that mothers are the heartbeat of birth. The relationship between the mother and her birth includes a blend of physical strength, emotional connection and skills required to harness her natural rhythm and flow.

Induction of labour or Spontaneous labour?

The Australian health and Welfare report of 2026 shows that the rate of spontaneous labour has reduced sine 2010. Interestingly, between 2020 and 2022 there was a slight increase in spontaneous labour.

The Australian health and Welfare report of 2026 shows that the rate of spontaneous labour has reduced sine 2010. Interestingly, between 2020 and 2022 there was a slight increase in spontaneous labour.

What your birth partner actually does in labour

When most people think about birth, the focus is (understandably) on the mother and baby. But your partner plays such an important role in how your birth feels and not because they need to fix anything but because they help create the environment your body needs to labour.

When most people think about birth, the focus is (understandably) on the mother and baby. But your partner plays such an important role in how your birth feels and not because they need to fix anything but because they help create the environment your body needs to labour.